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Shooting the Breeze on the Science of Sex

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WARNING: This article contains mature subject material!

The Science of Sex deals with lower vibrational sex and higher vibrational sex acts. So when dealing with sex, you gotta take people from lower to higher; explain to them why they do and like doing what they do. Most people operate sexually on the lower levels and are also stuck there.

A lot of stuff like ejaculating on a woman's face are subconscious/unconscious acts of a man leaving his energetic mark on a woman. For many, it's also a sign of disrespect, as well as the female being his property so he's marking her with his sperm. This is a major subconscious and deeply embedded psychological infatuation with a lot of males and I do suspect watching pornography has a lot to do with it.

A lot of sex that inflicts pain on a woman have to do with the need to give punishment, to dominate another human being --- power plays; what can't be conquered in the society is conquered in the bedroom (sex, bangin' on the vagina so as to take off societal pressures, stresses, and tensions), especially by Black males. And yes, many women do feel a need to be punished and sex may be the perfect outlet for them to be disciplined.

Females, generally speaking, use sex for political purposes. Ninety-nine percent of women will not have sex with their man or mate if they are truly upset, even if the argument is over religion or politics.

Women will only have sex when they make up their minds to have sex and this is when they feel they have won the argument or the man has given in to them.

Women, generally, don't argue to be right! They argue to WIN! (as Osho says). Some men will tell you they (women) argue just to be arguing.

Women express via communication and men don't understand that, seeing it as "women talk too damn much!"

Women are expressive. Women express via words and emotions and men express via the physical and logic or reason. This is why men are the purveyors of physical abuse, because they are physical absent use of logic and reason. When logic prevails, they will physically express via playing sports, lifting weights, or some other physical activity.

Other areas of life that may lead to a disagreement (or argument) between women and men overlaps into the bedroom. Very few women can draw the line and say "okay, that was over politics," but he/I/we want to have sex now or make love now." Very few can do this, well, at least from an open-heart perspective!

Also, a lot of women will start asking a man to do things after he 'hits' (has sex) that they didn't ask for while dating. Did you know that nowadays the word "dating" is used by prostitutes? Today, dating means "fucking." The old 1950's and 1960's connotation of this word has changed. People used to date before having sex and now they have sex while dating. This is true!

A subconscious or unconscious "sex for material things/profit" motive or modus operandi i.e. "you're fuckin' me so you should be helping me and doing stuff for me!" or "I'm giving you some coochie, so you should give me some [financial assistance, money, help paying my bills]" denotes poverty consciousness and politics - "quid pro quo-ism" (something for something). This is lower chakra sex! It is material level exclusively and lacks the spiritual.

But under laws of equality, in sex, the man is giving the woman some penis and the woman is giving the man some vagina, looking at things on a very low nature (but many people in our society operate on this lower nature and level). Neither party owes each other nada from the sex act. Sex is a mutual act (and/or contract) that should not be attached to duties or anything else. Duties come from the relationship/marriage, not from the sex act.

If a man owes you some money or material things because you're givin' him some coochie, many would dub this female a 'prostitute.'

I always tell women: Before sex, it's about YOU! But after sex, it's about HIM! This is how a lot of men in American society think today. After the sexual conquest, the woman is just another conquered prey. Women are not looked upon as just another piece of ass for nothing. Ass is another word for "booty" but "booty" also means spoils of war (or conquest).

Women who may like sex rough may have a psychological and/or subconscious desire to be dominated, to be submissive, to be conquered. Some women only have a fantasy to be dominated whereas others have a subconscious need to be dominated (or punished).

Many males have a psychological need to dominate. Many also have their fantasies of dominating a woman and sex is the perfect outlet.

Whereas all signs may be capable of the above, but this is more so true for Virgo and Pisces because these 2 signs are the most submissive in the Zodiac. They are inclined to please their lover (which makes Pisces and Virgo some serious lovers).

Pisces truly loves to please their mate. The Pisces female is a very submissive and passive lover, soft and gentle, very humble in the sex act. The same is true of Virgo.

Pisces and Virgo are astrological opposites and share many qualities but they will also pick up shadow (negative) traits of each other just like the other astrological pairs such as Aries-Libra, Taurus-Scorpio, Gemini-Sagittarius, cancer-Capricorn, and Leo-Aquarius.

Though a Virgo, Michael Jackson in his last days (years) of life displayed Piscean traits of disillusionment, drug addiction, depression, and escapism due to not being able to handle or face harsh reality. No sign is more inclined to drug and alcohol addiction than Pisces. Pisces likes to go up into the cosmos to escape Earth reality, especially if they deem it too harsh. This is why Pisces do well in relationships with Earth signs, especially Taurus, because Earth signs are very grounding and thus grounded and stable people.

Fire sign females are energetic by nature (if they remain healthy), fiery lovers.

Earth signs are very grounded and stable, practical lovers.

Air signs are turned on by intellect. They crave mind sex more than any other element. Get her mind and you got her ... well, you know! It rhymes with "mind."

Water signs are emotional but very intuitive. Don't cheat on them. They can feel everything though they may not say anything. These people can read your mind and know how you really feel at a gut level.

Taurus females are given to technique and may be mechanical; they like routine which may get boring for some people. But they have great stamina and endurance. They are slow and passionate lovers. Taurus females can be very materialistic too, their nature, so you better have some snaps (money) if you gon' sway this woman. Taurus makes a very loyal companion. Just never piss her off. She holds on to things almost to eternity, she's hard to forgive, so don't screw over her. Though an Earth sign, she's very emotional and sensitive.

Geminis can be some freaks (as all other Mutable signs: Virgo, Pisces, and Sagittarius). A mutable sign is given more to being a freak when you understand mutable signs: flexible, malleable, and adaptable.

Most women whom I have talked to via consultation that have had a bi-sexual affair, did oral sex a lot, experimented with anal sex, were promiscuous (casual sex), had a STD challenge, been with a lot of lovers, had sexual reproductive issues, a few abortions, etc. were VIRGO! Virgo and Libra are the whores of the Western Zodiac. They are capable of loving many people at the same time.

Aries are very sexually energetic. They are ruled by Mars which governs sexual impulse and energy. Aries and Scorpio are ruled by Mars energy and thus sexual energy. Scorpio governs the genitalia. Scorpio has 2 rulers whereas Aries has only one.

Water signs (Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio) are some very emotional lovers. Females of this element can become very attached to their lovers, especially if they are sexually served right. They will get attached (sprung) easily via emotions, more so than other females of different signs. Members of this element are the most inclined and #1 prospects to give a man a "fatal attraction" experience, especially the Scorpio woman and that's only if you dog her out.

Cancer females make some awesome wives. They are home centered and if a man is old fashioned and really like the home life and a woman who enhances the home, Cancer is the woman for this man. However, this woman's emotions fluctuate like the waves in the ocean. Well, after all, she is governed by the Moon's energy. However, she can be highly sexed if served right in the bed.

Leo woman are very attractive women, very sensual, lustful, passionate. Drop dead gorgeous! They turn heads! They make great lovers but you have to be careful as a man because Leos can be very materialistic. They love to shine too! They are very regal and know it. They can be some very jealous lovers too, up there with Taurus and Scorpio. Leo women are radiant in many things, especially beauty and ambition.

Libra women make for some cool lovers. They are ruled by Venus just like Taurus. Libras love to give in the sex act. Sex is an art to the Libra female. The Libra woman must have romance and intimacy. It's mandatory! These 2 things are guaranteed to lead to sex more so with the Libra woman as compared to other signs. She must have romance! Her sign coincides with the Seventh House of Romance and Marriage. More than any other sign, this woman wants romance followed by marriage! She likes all things beautiful too, like her Taurus cousin. Because she's an Air sign, mental stimulation is her turn on. She likes intellectual stimulation.

The Aquarius woman must really like a man to have sex with him. This is a very fickle sign, sexually. She's wary of permanent relationships. This woman must have her space. Her relationship will seem more like boyfriend and girlfriend (even if she's married) and even brother and sister. This is a very independent sign and she is not owned by sex. She can be very creative in sex though, as she is in life. She also likes to learn in sex too as she likes to learn by her nature. This is a woman who must really dig you if you are to dig her out, if you know what I mean! (I have a fun side too, people; I'm not this strict spiritualist many have me out to be). This woman may also be too busy involved with social change or some social or political movement because that's part of her makeup. She's a creature for change, including social and world change.

The Capricorn female can be a lieutenant or sergeant in life and in bed, giving a man orders on how to "hit it!" She can be very bossy too; she's very mouthy too! But she's very grounded and stable and sex can be enjoyable with her. She's very affectionate but may lack passion. She too can be materialistic and high maintenance. Caps deal with high social status. This woman can be very authoritative and demanding in sex like she is in life. She'll either go for a weaker man to dominate him and punk him in the sex act or she'll be attracted to very authoritative type men to compliment and balance her but who also respects her. Capricorn women (when operating on lower vibration or negativity) more than any other will use a man, as their statement is "I Use!" This woman will use what she's got to get what she wants. However, this is generally a cool, stable, and grounded woman. Very loyal too! You can get to the T-O-P with her, especially in society!

The Sagittarius female is a female a man can and will have a lot of fun with. She likes trivia though so be ready to play a lot. Fun and games is her nature. It turns her on. She likes educated type of men. She's very athletic in the sex act too. Great stamina and passion! This woman can hang for a while in long distance relationships more than any other sign because she likes to travel. Whereas Geminis will travel locally for some sex with no problem, Sagittarius will travel long distance for it, more so than any other sign. Sag females are a lot of fun and sex is riveting. She's a freak too! She usually has pronounced hips and thighs.

The Scorpio female loves passionately and intensely. When she loves, she loves and deeply too. She's partly ruled by Mars and this energy governs her genitalia and gives her a high and strong sex drive. She's prone to being a freak if she taps into this side and expresses it. However, she can also be highly spiritual in sex as well. This woman is very physical in the act. But if you cross her, you're dealing with a master of vengeance; so don't dog her out!

While all women are capable of affairs, none more so than the sneaky Pisces female, followed by Virgo followed by Sagittarius and Gemini - MUTABLE signs. If these women are happy and content, they are very loyal, but if not, you can forget about it. They have no problem screwing married people too. Both Pisces and Virgo have serious kinky sides, with Virgo being the queen of kink! Virgos are more apt to be lesbian too!

Okay, I'll cover men next. I always cover women first because, well, you know -- ladies first!

The Science of Sex Vol. 1 e-book (coming soon) deals with all LOWER VIBRATIONAL sex acts and Vol. 2 when it comes out will deal with HIGHER VIBRATIONAL sex acts.

Thank you for reading!

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    It sound like he should get some type of counseling or anger management. He may have had some type of trauma that is causing him to react this way. As for you, all you can do is move away from him when he is acting like this. Instead of staying and waiting for him to leave when he gets out of control, calmly say "I do not want to see you like this, so I am going to take a walk until you calm down." This will break up the pattern you are both on with this behavior. Give him lots of love and wait to express how you feel when you are both calmer. Forcing or pushing him to talk before he is ready may be a trigger that makes him feel angry and out of control. We recommend that you both agree to change your perspective on fighting. Recognize that fighting is only a perspective collision. Your goal should be to grow not to win when fighting or arguing. This will bring you closer when you argue instead of making you fight. You can also start working on your perspective about him. Start telling yourself wouldn't it be nice if he communicated with me and listened to my perspective when we disagreed. You have to see him how you want him to be before he can become what you want.

    Here is a link to an article we wrote on defusing arguments.
    http://www.lctv.com/2011/10/04/fight-to-grow-not-to-win
    You can also visit our website www.theamazingclarks.com to watch a video about fighting to grow as well.
    The Amazing Clarks
    Best of luck! Love and light to you both.

    Kind Regards,

    Melanie Clark r

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    Q: I would like to know, if you have any skin care programs, for women age 50 and over. I am going to try the detox program as soon as possible. I truly believe that I am going to be very happy with the results. I am 51 years old, and I want to look and feel my best. I have a lot of belly fat, and that makes me feel uncomfortable, because some people will ask me, if I am pregnant. This seems very strange to me, because my stomach seems to be the main place, where all the fat is building up. I desire to have beauty inside and out. I want to be completely whole. If you have tips for skin care and body care, please let me know. Some people say that I look like I am in my forties, however, if I did not have all of this extra body fat, I could really believe what they are saying.

    A:

    Apparently, you are dealing with a colon problem (perhaps constipation) buttressed by underlying energetic (emotional/metaphysical) issues. The belly is located in the Second Chakra which deals with issues of sexuality, pleasure, relationships with the opposite sex, femininity, womanhood, motherhood, Godessness, and money. The physical problem is always predicated upon a hidden or invisible problem that must be addressed before the physical healing can take place. A Dherbs health consultation can help you get to the root cause of your health issues. Consider a consultation!

    In re skin care, I suggest Oz-Oil used all over your body because the oxygen in it will revitalize the cells of the body. Beauty begins on a cellular level, physically speaking.

    The Female Menstrual Belly rub is also helpful for the belly and skin of the belly.

    Also, read our article The Healing Power of Steam because there are certain baths you can take daily that will greatly help your skin.

    Also, start getting colonics performed to. You are carrying excess poop in addition to fat in your belly area. Basically, you are literally pregnant with feces and fat.

    After detoxing, make sure you perform our Bowel Mover and Colon Conditioner formulas for maintenance purposes and be on the lookout for our new 3-week WEIGHT RELEASE kit and regimen which should be available in May 2007.

    Thank you for your interest in Dherbs.Com!

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    Q: I was reading your article on Astrological Health and I am a Scorpio woman, born on October 31, who does not have a strong sex drive at all. In fact I've never really been into sex at all which has made my partners upset and discouraged at times and has had me thinking that something may be wrong with me. I have even considered seeing a sexual doctor about these issues. You state that the "Scorpio governs the genitalia or sex" and this explains our sex drive but yet I've been sexually active for 7 years and have also never had an orgasm. I was molested from ages 4 to 11 and sometimes I think this has something to do with how I am but I'm just not sure. I would really like to increase my sex drive and be able to orgasm and have considered taking your bunny rabbit formula in order to fix this but now knowing that astrologically I'm supposed to be opposite of how I am (which I've heard before but didn't know the extent until now), I'm beginning to think something is seriously wrong with me. What are your thoughts?

    A:

    Please consider scheduling a consultation so we can get to the root of the issue and help you to unblock your blockages that are preventing you from truly enjoying sex and having an orgasm. Consultations are now half price ($50). There is healing and help for you! You're just missing the knowledge you require.

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    Q: I know you are an herbalist and I have read your articles on relationships, but I really need to discuss an issue with a conscious person like yourself. I have a friend who is a conscious brother, he made it known that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, claims he's to busy, but he is into having a spiritual sexual relationship(releasing energy he says on a spiritual level). My thought is that in order to connect with someone totally on a sexual level they should be a unit to experience this sacred sexual experience he refers to, otherwise to me it seems a very clever why to have sex without the commitment of being in a relationship. I would really appreciate your thoughts.

    A:

    Dudes can be so clever! He sounds like a Taurus! LOL!

    He's using spirituality to justify having sex with you. There's no spirituality with a casual sex partner. This practice is deep and creates serious energetic connections via the chakras. There's no connection without being a unit and having a commitment. My motto is: no sex absent love and commitment (unless both parties agree)! Hope this helps you out!

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    Q: I got a question for you, I got a natal chart from you guys and it says my karma is in Virgo, I am a Scorpio. What does that mean, do I have problems with Virgo, do I owe them? What does this mean, my north node is in Virgo, and my south node in Pisces, these three confuse me, not sure what they mean. If you can shed some light, I would appreciate it. Love Peace and Light Brother!

    A:

    Identify the qualities of the sign of Virgo (service, work, health, hygiene, etc.) and this will show you the areas from a past life that you failed and need to work on in this present life. You may need to serve people, work for free (charity) in helping others, and perhaps in the field of health (i.e. hospital or something).

    The North Node also means the past life karma - area you need to work on (which is also Virgo; many times the North Node matches the 12th House sign which deals with karma). The 12th House and North Node are usually the same and mean the same - karma!

    The South Node deals with the things (traits of Pisces) you learned well in the past life. These are strong resources you can use now in this life. Study what Pisces represents and these are the things you mastered in the past life.

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    Q: I am truly in love with a man, that has been sexually involved with other women. Not emotionally involved. What I have came to believe is a sex addiction he has. Should I end the relationship? If so how? My feelings for him want let me stay away. He keeps professing his love for me, and I want to believe it. But, I think I'm being blinded by love.

    A:

    In this case all you can do is be clear about how you feel and what you need. If being in a monogamous relationship is what you want then be clear about that. But, be prepared to accept that he may not be in the same place. If he is not ready to stop having sex with other people, he has every right to do that. Men have to make that decision for themselves. You cannot force him, or guilt him into wanting to be in a monogamous relationship with you. If you are enjoying him then keep enjoying him. Don't focus on what he is doing when he is not with you. If this is too difficult for you, then you have to move on and bless him. Everyone has the right to have what they want. Loving someone does not mean they have to become what you want them to be. Loving someone means you love and respect their choices even if they do not work for you. If you want him to choose you and only you then focus on what you like and love about him. This will help you attract more of the things you do want in a relationship and partner. If you do this you will either attract someone new with more of these qualities or your guy will start to show you more of these things and become more of what you want. Your power is in focusing on what you DO want and feeling good as much as possible. You are where you are and that's okay. Consciously create the reality you want from here on!

    Kind Regards,

    Melanie Clark

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    Q: I have been married 5 years and my husband and I are not seeing eye to eye after the birth of our two kids. It seems like he has drawn farther away from me. It could be stress or job related issues, but the fact remains that he does not communicate to me about anything important in his life. He just has a closed shell when it comes to telling me things. Also, he stop paying the the rent for a while now. I don't know if this has anything to do with me making more than him financially. How can I approach my husband, with out hurting his ego and get him to talk to me about anything? But, I must say we are not affectionate to each other only when it comes to be sexual. What can I do?

    A:

    Sometimes men feel like an outsider after children are born. It's because the wife has to give the children so much of her attention. He cant help feeling a little resentful or jealous. If you want him to open up. Give him some attention. Tell him you appreciate him often. Kiss him and love on him too. Men also shut down when they are not getting enough sex. Tell him when you feel sexual. Tell him you want him, and are attracted to him. This will help him to feel close to you again, and he will begin to share himself with you again. Treat him the way you want to be treated.

    Sending love and light.

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