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Radiance
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« on: January 19, 2011, 03:35:06 PM »

I have a friend that is currently in jail for over a year now, the charges against him is that he told someone to be beat up his brother-in law. This brother in law is nothing but a jeolous, munipulative person, who actually was employed by my friend and got into an argument over his work papers, the idiot didn't know how to fill out the billing papers.   Anyway, it really all boils down to is this man was so jeolous of my friend, because my friend has his own business and is successful.  So he made up a lie that my friend had another co-worker beat him up.  The story absolutely makes no sense, but for some reason the court system is buying this bull shit story.  And its just really taking a toll on the family, especially his wife and the two small children.  We have all written letters gone to the court several times, and I just don't know how the courts can keep a man in jail over a fight he was not involved in.  The fight involved the brother in-law and the payroll coordinator, two grown ass men, of equal built.  No bones were broken, just a regular fight between two men.  Ite been over a year, and today another failed bond release hearing, because the brother-inlaw wrote another letter to the judge filled with lies, told the judge that my friends business  is full of thugs.  Which is so far from the truth, its like they can't stand to see a successful black men have his own business that empowers those that are homeless or have mental health issues

Well anyway, its just really got my spirit down, I've prayed all year, spoke of freedom for my friend all the time, and it just seems like this nightmare continues...  Any suggestions, prayer techniques, I feel like I'm calling on all the freedom angels and I just don't know what else to do.

  The sad part is the prosecuter has the nerve to suggest 8 years, wtf!!  For a fight he was not even in.  Because he was at the front door of his house they are charging him with burglary, which makes no sense.  Supposedly, you can have one foot inside a persons door and its could be burglary, which is ridicolous, the only thing I could possibly see is trespassing.  But even that doesn't stick, because it was the sister in-law house and she welcomed him in to her house.  And now the sister in-law can't see pass her man, and won't speak up, he is controlling her, and already divided her against the family.  The brother in-law is apart of some religion now, not sure what but we think he has her under some spell, cause she appear to be stuck on stupid since she met him. 
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« Reply #1 on: January 20, 2011, 02:08:06 PM »

By the time I got to the middle of the post, juju was exactly what I was thinking. For him to be in jail for that long over a street fight that they cannot even prove he was in is definitely a major red flag. If I were you, I would collect names and even possibly even photos of those involved and take them to a juju man or woman to see what's going on. Also, it would be wise to go out of town to find someone because you don't want to risk the chance of asking the wrong person and they might be one of his godparents or god brothers or sisters then they may tip him off. Good Luck!!!!
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« Reply #2 on: January 20, 2011, 03:53:00 PM »

Thanks for the advice, I never heard of juju.  I'll have to research that.  I heard from my best friend that the brother in-law now wears all white due to his religion and has all these dolls hanging all around the house. Who knows what that man is up too.  But appreciate the advice.
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« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2011, 02:21:41 AM »

Thanks for the advice, I never heard of juju.  I'll have to research that.  I heard from my best friend that the brother in-law now wears all white due to his religion and has all these dolls hanging all around the house. Who knows what that man is up too.  But appreciate the advice.


Juju is just a catch phrase that means magic.
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