Soulmates and twin flames... Is he The One?

[Love]

I met a soulmate last year, almost six months ago.  Yeah, I know I always bring this up... lol.  When we first met I dreamt of him beforehand and literally connected with him and felt his energy in my dream.  This was the start of my profound spiritual experiences... his love and his presence literally awakened me and I instantly went through a healing process, I have never been the same person since.  We seem to mirror each other in our lives, and I always feel as though he speaks for me.  There were times when he created videos right at the time when I needed them in my spiritual development.  There is no way I would have gotten through what I did spiritually without him.  I would have literally gone nuts.  Everything he is I have prayed for up until our meeting... I knew that only someone like this would be the only person to understand me, and this has been proven to be true.  I actually prayed that I would meet him or someone like him immediately after waking up when I first dreamt about him... it seriously had that much of an effect on me.

He is wide awake and is the epitome of love and humility; however, he does have very deep issues with personal love.  He is not in and has not been in a relationship in I don't know how long.  He acknowledges our connection, but does not have the wow factor like I did... maybe because he was already awakened.  I went through so much so quickly and had so much energy pass through me in the first three months of knowing him that I felt as though I was playing catch up.  When we first met I had this feeling that we were soulmates and told this to him.  He is the one person on the planet who I feel I can't withhold information from.  He knows everything about me, the good, the bad, and the ugly.  In the beginning I've seen holographic visions of us and millisecond memories that made me weak in the knees.  Thinking of him activates my heart chakra.    He agrees that we are soulmates, but says we're from the same soul group; however, no parties will be thrown for our joining together, no parades, no nothing.  It's not like other soulmate/twin mate relationships that I've heard of and know.  In the beginning I was sure we were twin mates, but he has informed me we are otherwise, but this could be due to his fear of relationships.  I withdrew from him for a while in hopes that things would die, but came back with stronger feelings that he is my twin flame.  We are so connected mentally that it freaks me out sometimes... lol.  There are times when I just knows when he does certain things.  I know now with certainty that he is either my twin flame or a very close replica.  However, I'm more sure that we are twins, but I'm curious to know what an outsider peeking in thinks.  Is this another quiz, or is this the final test... or a sample test?

I found this really good article on soulmates and twin flames that makes me even so much sure that he is indeed The One.  And even if he is not The One, isn't it worth working through our issues instead of walking away, as difficult as these issues may be?  Anything else would be just settling.

http://www.harusami.com/soul2soul/twinsoul.html

[UltraVioletMix]

...Wow.

Its funny cause I was jus thinking the same thing about my ex...We went to a palm reader bout 2 yrs ago and she told us we were soul mates and would be married in 2 yrs, well he heard 3....but what ever. I went back to her right before my transformation...and she looked at me as if I was about to go through some thangs...lol, which I was.

He went to college for biology and I went for finance....lol....now he works in finance and I am so into all that is healthy for the body, planet, ect.

I was thinking one night how much I missed him...and he calls, on accident.

Im soo drawn to him....i try to disconnect from him...but every time I try, there he is. I actually met a guy that I was interested in getting to know better. Then who texts me that same day....at 4:33...saying hes in town and wants to hang out...yes my ex.

But he is not nearly as healthy as me....but the funny thing is he was way healthier then me when we first met and also more aware.

Reading your post, after thinking "is he The One?", really has me thinking he very well could be.

I always thought the union of soulmates would be easy...but maybe not...maybe a merging of energy is a slightly bumpy task...with many lessons and tests. But I say if it feels natural that you to keep at it, no matter how trying, then do so. I think you will know when or if its time to move on...jus as you have before.

Thank you for this....it brought chills to my soul. Off to check out that site....

[Radiance]

I'm still learning about the soul mate and twin flame, so not sure on what advise I can give.  But I wanted to thank you for the article, very enlightening.

[Love]

@Radiance... You are very welcome.  I've searched lots of soulmate / twin flame articles and thought this was the best.

@Ash a.k.a UltraVioletMix... You are so welcome.    It sounds like you and your ex definitely have a connection.  From what I understand soulmate / twin flame relationships take work, especially if you're not ready for each other.  I know two people who believe they found their twin flames and it did not work out AT ALL.  One's twin flame is far more conscious than she is and they have had conflicts with regards to some of the choices she has made.  She has decided to not pursue a relationship with him at this time.  The never met in person.  Another met hers in person and said they were even able to communicate telepathically.  However, "he was a jerk."  I was like wow... if it wasn't for the telepathy thing, I would say she may have been mistaken.  They apparently have some kind of connection.  With me I'm on the fence with this twin flame thing, but don't think I would have taken the route the others have.  I would definitely try to work things out by any means necessary, but it takes two.

In all honesty, I've been leaning away from the idea that he is my twin.  I've been trying to communicate with my guides for answers.  I'm still a bit rusty and haven't gotten an answer that is clear enough to me.  From what I understand, he is not my twin flame, but vibrates very close to him... possibly the next best thing.  I'll take that!  lol...   He and I had been informed when we first met that the purpose of our meeting was simply for awakening and guidance.  I intuitively knew, and he came to this same conclusion by other means.  However, the intensity of the connection is so strong, it becomes confusing.  If nothing comes of this, I will at least have a wonderful friend.

With that said, I asked a friend about this who is quite perceptive.  He actually sees someone else.  He said he'll give me a better reading once he has meditated, so I am looking forward to that.  I will meditate also and try again tonight.

So why did you lose contact with your ex?  Well, you don't have to answer that, but it sounds as though you split on amicable terms.  It definitely sounds like something worth exploring.  And as far as you being healthier, we all grow at different rates and what we eat is not the definition of who we are.  For instance, my diet is far more healthy than soulmate's, and probably far more healthy than he is currently willing to go.  However, he is far more connected to the Universe than I am and most people that I have come across, including all the health nuts.  What we eat and slather on our body is not the full story.  It is in actually uniting together that we see the most growth in each other.  Everyone holds a piece of the puzzle.  I have looked to him for guidance and was very surprised to find that he and other really strong folks learn from me... lol.  Don't force anything on him.  I say reach out to him and he will grow in time, and you never know how he may be able to help you.

[UltraVioletMix]

So why did you lose contact with your ex?  Well, you don't have to answer that, but it sounds as though you split on amicable terms.  It definitely sounds like something worth exploring.  And as far as you being healthier, we all grow at different rates and what we eat is not the definition of who we are.  For instance, my diet is far more healthy than soulmate's, and probably far more healthy than he is currently willing to go.  However, he is far more connected to the Universe than I am and most people that I have come across, including all the health nuts.  What we eat and slather on our body is not the full story.  It is in actually uniting together that we see the most growth in each other.  Everyone holds a piece of the puzzle.  I have looked to him for guidance and was very surprised to find that he and other really strong folks learn from me... lol.  Don't force anything on him.  I say reach out to him and he will grow in time, and you never know how he may be able to help you.

We did split on ok terms....he moved, we didnt like the long distance thing and both needed space to grow...that was 1 year and 2 months ago. I actually went to seem him this past weekend. It was funny...my sis came home for her birthday that weekend and his fam went out of town that weekend also. He asks me if I would like to spend the weekend wit him...I wanted to sooo bad, but said no so I could spend the weekend wit my sis. My sis said she didnt mind...but I wasnt gonna up and leave her on her bday weekend. Soo, she gets a text from her college friend/roomie saying her parents (who are very controling) are out of town...roomie lives in NYC....my ex lives 20 mins from NYC. My sis, who likes to drive and hates staying at home, said "Hey I wanna go to NYC tonite to hang wit my roomie...and Im like 'Hey can you drop me off at my exs place??'" Lol....that morn before all that went down...I woke up and thought how wonderful it would be if i was in NYC wit my ex, in his arms....that nite, im in his arms and it felt soo wonderful.

In all honesty, I've been leaning away from the idea that he is my twin.  I've been trying to communicate with my guides for answers.  I'm still a bit rusty and haven't gotten an answer that is clear enough to me.  From what I understand, he is not my twin flame, but vibrates very close to him... possibly the next best thing.  I'll take that!  lol...   He and I had been informed when we first met that the purpose of our meeting was simply for awakening and guidance.  I intuitively knew, and he came to this same conclusion by other means.  However, the intensity of the connection is so strong, it becomes confusing.  If nothing comes of this, I will at least have a wonderful friend.

You know....i did the same thing. I was at work (where we have to take calls from the members, work at a pension fund) wanting to know if in fact he is really my soul mate...is he it?? Bout 5-7 mins later I get a call from a member....named Gregory (my exes name) and wait...the caller was an Aires (jus like my ex)
Then the way we met always pops in my head too...it was awesome. We met in college...my senior yr, his jr. Went to a small school and Ive never seen this kid in all 4 yrs! My teacher told us to met her in the auditorium for some book discussion...I was like..."Ha! No thanks, back home I go!" Then a girl from class asked me if she could ride wit me over there. I said "Sure!" and so I changed my mind bout skipin the whole thing. I went and was gonna sit in the back....till they asked us to move up some (wasnt a lot ppl there). I jus happend to pick the row right in front of my ex...and the seat in front of his too! Lol...the whole time, im like this is sooo boring...ima leave...but other ppl started leaving too and I felt bad for the poor author of the book and decided to stay. I was also thinking "why does this guy behind me keep leanin forward gettin all close to me...ugh, i think hes trying to get at me" Then the end of this thing...YES!!! they start taking questions. So he gets up (my ex) to ask a question...as hes walkin, im thinking "Mmm hes pretty cute" Then he opens his mouth....i damn near fell out my chair! He is sooo smart! ....he later admited to me that he did that to get my attention...it worked! We talked on the phone a couple of times...good, flowing convo, very natural from the start. I was talkin to someone else at the time....was acctually gonna marry him...so I decided to stop talking to my ex. He called a few more times, but i ignored the calls. so he stopped calling...and i thought that was that. A couple days later (mind you, never seen this kid on campus in all 4 yrs!) we run into each other in the halls of a building where we had class at the same time...i was walkin out the door after getting a snack from the vending machine (yuck!) and he was walkin in the door to go up the steps...lol...he calls me that night...and here we are today...2.15 yrs later.

So why did you lose contact with your ex? Well, you don't have to answer that, but it sounds as though you split on amicable terms.  It definitely sounds like something worth exploring.  And as far as you being healthier, we all grow at different rates and what we eat is not the definition of who we are.  For instance, my diet is far more healthy than soulmate's, and probably far more healthy than he is currently willing to go.  However, he is far more connected to the Universe than I am and most people that I have come across, including all the health nuts.  What we eat and slather on our body is not the full story.  It is in actually uniting together that we see the most growth in each other.  Everyone holds a piece of the puzzle.  I have looked to him for guidance and was very surprised to find that he and other really strong folks learn from me... lol.  Don't force anything on him.  I say reach out to him and he will grow in time, and you never know how he may be able to help you.

So tru....so tru. Im not gonna force him...I think we now have a lot to learn from each other...he admited to still being in love wit me...and I the same. It still feels right to talk to him...so ima go wit that gut feeling.

With that said, I asked a friend about this who is quite perceptive.  He actually sees someone else.  He said he'll give me a better reading once he has meditated, so I am looking forward to that.  I will meditate also and try again tonight.

Oooo!! Sounds exciting!! Sendin some positive energy your way....hope you find what you are looking for!