Very interesting... I have never viewed Virgos as sexual people. In fact, I've always thought that to be an oxymoron.
However, that may just be my personal perception.
Other than a couple of isolated incidences, as an Aries woman, I tend to attract mostly Leos. Aquarians come in second. Funny thing is, I get along extremely well with Leo men, but have not had a lasting relationship with not one. Not a single one. The reasons for the break-ups generally did not have anything to do with our compatibility. I've noticed something about Leo men, if they are not in a position where they feel totally in charge/masculine, they tend to freeze up and bail. However, I have also had weird experiences with them to the point where at one point I felt as though I was cursed... starting with the one who got deported. An Aries/Leo pairing is highly passionate, but my experiences made me feel as though they are emotionally draining when everything is not going great, and I don't do that back and forth thing. They tend to like to do that. They go off into a cave for whatever amount of time and then come back out looking for me. Uuhhh... sorry buddy. That ship has sailed! You go find yourself a patient Aries woman... now THAT's an oxymoron... lol.
I seem to attract those with whom there would be a fight for control and find the same in Aquarians. I've dated one for close to four years. He was quite the persistent fellow. Chased me for a full year before I decided to give him five of my seven digits... lol. Or was it six of the seven... I forget. So finally he wooed me over, I cave in, and like the passionate Aries woman I am gave myself to him wholeheartedly... that was a mistake! Apparently the thrill was in the chase, because the moment I let down my guard he backed away... didn't break up with me... just backed away a bit. Had me confused for the LONGEST time because this man was supposedly so in love with me... in fact, I have yet to get over that confusion. I find that they tend to be super steamy one minute and like an ice box the next. There is never a middle ground. The Aquarians I have come across in life have ranged from asexual/non-sexual to super freak... lol. With me you know you're getting high energy, high passion, total excitement, all the time. With an Aquarian I feel I need to walk around with a thermometer to gauge their temperature then adjust how I interact with them. With that said, I never gave up on them because of their loving and friendly spirits. Some of the most loving people in my life happen to be Aquarian. I also find their like roaches... once they get comfortable in your life, it's hard to get rid of them... lol. My Aquarian ex is now best friends with my brother... he just won't go away... lol.
One would think that I would LOVE me some Sags. I get along GREAT with Sag women. We tend to attract each other and remain friends for YEARS!! However, I haven't had good experiences with Sag men. Although we do well as friends, I find that they tend to be cheaters, and I can see right through a cheater. And if I can't see through them, I tend to be alerted in dreams. Because of this I have never really had a relationship with a Sag.
Those who make my DO NOT DATE list are as follows: Virgo, Libra and Scorpio... next is the remainder of the Earth signs, Taurus and Capricorn. But really, I find that EVERY relationship no matter what takes work and commitment from both ends.
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