GREETINGS ALL
,
I AM INTERESTED TO SEE COMMENTS OF THE BROTHA'S, WHO MAY HAPPEN TO READ THIS BRIEF RANT OF MINE, WHO ACTUALLY
LOVE THE LADY(S) THEY ARE WITH.
WHEN I SAY LOVE, I MEAN:
*BUYING HER/THEM FLOWERS & CANDY ON A REGULAR BASIS.
*TALKING CALM TO HER/THEM WHEN SHE/THEM IS/ARE UPSET.
*DEALING WITH HER/THEIR IDIOSYNCRASIES IN A PATIENTLY, MANLY MANNER.
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HAVING A FEW RULES (FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE WHOLE) FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO LIVE BY.*TAKING HER/THEM OUT FOR COFFEE OR LUNCH ON A CONSISTENT BASIS.
*BUYING GROCERIES
*BEING A GOOD FATHER (ERGO - GOING TO SCHOOL W/ YOUR CHILDREN, WHETHER THEY ARE BIOLOGICALLY YOURS OR NOT)
*MAKING SURE THE HOUSE OR HOUSES ARE MAINTAINED MECHANICALLY & FINANCIALLY.
*MAKING A GOOD EFFORT TO ACCOMMODATE SOME OF HER/THEIR SPECIAL PREFERENCES (WEARING COLOGNE SHE LIKES,ORDING HER FAVORITE FOOD, BUYING THE DRESS SHE WANTS, GETTING HER THAT FUNNY LOOKING DOG SHE IS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT, PAINTING THE COLOR SHE WANTS HER ROOM(S) TO BE, ETC.)
*BEING PASSIONATELY INTIMATE W/ HER/THEM...A.K.A. "TAPPIN' THAT ASS LIKE IT NEEDS TO BE TAPPED!...ON A REGULAR"
*BEING POETIC IN SPEECH TO YOUR LADY(S) ON REGULAR.
WE AS BLACK MEN HAVE TO LOVE OUR BLACK WOMEN W/ TENACIOUS PASSION & CONVICTION, WHICH REQUIRES US TO STOP W/ PORTRAYING AS
CHARACTURES FOISTED UPON US BY NON-BLACKS AS BEING 'PIMPS', 'PLAYA'S', LOW-LIFE(S), 'BALLERS', ETC., ETC.
WE NEED TO HUSTLE FOR OUR FAMILIES( WHICH STARTS W/ THE WOMEN IN OUR LIVES & TAKING THE WORK-LOAD OFF OF THEM) IN A DIGNIFIED WAY - WHETHER IT BE PICKING UP CANS FOR A LIVING, WORKING ON CARS &TRUCKS, MANAGING STORES, BUILDING SKY-SCRAPERS & BRIDGES, CUTTING GRASS, SHINING SHOES, OWNING FARMS, BEING A TEACHER OR TUCK-POINTING A HOUSE; & TAKING OUR SONS W/ US, SO THAT THEY CAN SEE WHAT WE DO ACTUALLY DO FOR A LIVING.
I CAN PERSONALLY ATTEST TO THE FACT THAT BEING A LIVING, BREATHING, EXAMPLE OF WHAT BLACK MANLINESS IS HAS ITS BENEFITS...WHAT I DO FOR A LIVING REQUIRES ALLOT OF THOUGHT & PHYSICAL LABOR; & IT ALLOWS ME TO TAKE CARE OF MY WOMEN & OUR CHILDREN, I.E.[MY FAMILIY]...I HAVE NO COMPLAINTS.
IF YOU'VE GOT 4REAL GAME, AS I HAVE STATED ABOVE, THEN HAVING CONTINUOUS INTIMACIES W/ YOUR LADY(S) IS EASY.
IF YOU HAVE
NO GAME, THEN, YOU COMPLAIN ALL THE TIME - ABOUT THE LADIES - LIKE ONE.
IN SUMMATION, WHAT I AM ASKING IS,
"HOW MANY BROTHA'S OUT READING THIS, GOT GAME"!?
WITH LOVE & RESPECT,
BRO. TEHUNZU
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