Studies are claiming that sex twice a week will...

[Lady Ashayt]

Reduce risk of breast cancer and heart disease, boost your immune system, and decrease depression.  I don't think having sex because you believe it will do these things is beneficial.  I do think that with the right person and mindset though, it can do these things and more.  These studies must have been done retrospectively in people who just enjoyed having sex.

But it is truly healthy for men to ejaculate that often?  Also, one woman made a comment that she would remove both her breasts before she gave a man the pleasure of "getting it" from her that often.

[curtisduncan]

Reduce risk of breast cancer and heart disease, boost your immune system, and decrease depression.  I don't think having sex because you believe it will do these things is beneficial.  I do think that with the right person and mindset though, it can do these things and more.  These studies must have been done retrospectively in people who just enjoyed having sex.

But it is truly healthy for men to ejaculate that often?  Also, one woman made a comment that she would remove both her breasts before she gave a man the pleasure of "getting it" from her that often.

That is true, sex is healing! It is not good for men to be busting a lot of nuts as it can leads to mineral deficiencies but it is a stress reliever for many men and stress plays a major role in disease. However it is still better for a man to conserve his fluids if you will. I did read somewhere that ejaculation can be a beneficial thing as it helps to remove different chemicals from the prostate. A medical study said that but damn those chemicals will be deposited into the woman coochie possibly?

I agree with your points Lady Ashayt, just having sex to be having it might not be the best way. Shit in the Matrix, a study could show having sex is the cure for cancer and muthafuckas still would not do it because of religious programming and sexual suppression i.e. Sex before marriage is evil, Sex is dirty and the like.  I personally believe that women should be more sexually active than men for optimal health.  Sex is usually a more depleting act for a man due to ejaculation for the simple fact that men are usually givers in the sex act.  Maybe that is why men programmed women to believe that being promiscuous was bad i.e. calling them a hoe or a slut to decrease a woman's health so the male dominated medical industry could have more sick women which they can drug and cut. 

Damn, a woman wants to get her titties sliced off before getting some from a man Wow, I made a comment on diet soda on Facebook today (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Curtis-Duncan/92895029680) on how diet soda contains brain destroying Aspartame. Maybe that women is on that, LOL. That comment reveals some negative programming towards sexual roles.   I wonder why women embrace the idea that they giving some to a man when she has nothing to give.  Why do men embrace the idea that I am going to get some from girl when there is nothing to get from her.  Shouldn't women be making comments on how they got some from a man since women are the receivers and men are the givers?     

[Lady Ashayt]

I agree with you Curtis.  As a person who enjoys being sensual and sexual, I don't understand people who don't find sex pleasurable (unless it was caused by trauma, then I can empathize).  Having sex and flirting was a major source of stress relief during college, though I was pretty undercover with it, so as to not be known as the campus freak.  Which in my opinion was better than being an alcoholic, which is what older chemistry majors told me I would become while I studied chemistry, since that was their way of dealing with stress. Though I did have major guilt since I was supposed to be a "good pure until marriage Christian girl".

But in a relationship where things are bad--sex because you should do it, or it's healthy--would still be bad sex.  Those types of situations, and thinking of some of the conversations I've had over the years with married Christian women, often made me feel I was wrong, unbalanced or manish for enjoying sex.

[Mr. Transcend]

Also, one woman made a comment that she would remove both her breasts before she gave a man the pleasure of "getting it" from her that often.

Well... damn. She's more uptight than even me... 

[Ubasti]

Also, one woman made a comment that she would remove both her breasts before she gave a man the pleasure of "getting it" from her that often.

Well... damn. She's more uptight than even me... 

LOL, thats a lil over the top, Im hoping she was only kidding.

[Rae of Light]

Twice a week isn't that often

[Ezkeel]

Man i know kids in skool that have sex like twice a day ( not everyday of the week)
but if they would they could.

This one girl got mad at her boyfriend cuz he wouldnt mak love ta her nine times a dY but i think she just needed some attention

twi e a week? That aint even nuttin!!!

[Lady Ashayt]

Also, one woman made a comment that she would remove both her breasts before she gave a man the pleasure of "getting it" from her that often.

Well... damn. She's more uptight than even me... 

LOL, thats a lil over the top, Im hoping she was only kidding.

I hope so too.  She called into a radio show to say it though, so she might have truly been serious.

Twice a week isn't that often

I agree.

Man i know kids in skool that have sex like twice a day ( not everyday of the week)
but if they would they could.

This one girl got mad at her boyfriend cuz he wouldnt mak love ta her nine times a dY but i think she just needed some attention

twi e a week? That aint even nuttin!!!

I agree, during college there were lots of people having sex all the time often mutliple times per day.  But I do agree, that the girl you mentioned might have equated sex with love, so him not having sex on command (plus some insecurity on her part) would result in her anger at not having more sex...Poor guy, she must have been draining him, lol.

[Ezkeel]

well the girl you refer to she was in college
but I was actually talking earlier about highschool!!!
lol
When I was in GA
I went to a few highschools... all of em were the same!!!
Freaks right and left!!!

One time this guy walks into the room and the teacher calls him up to the board to do a math problem,=.
It just so happens that it is the first class of the day... keep this in mind!!!
So as he is writing on the board a girls says to him you got some thin on your pants
he looks down and reaches to pick it off and it falls on the floor for everybody to see.
Its a used condom!!!
lmao
and he looks around the room all bewildered
"How in the world"
How did that get there?

he thought he was col enough to play it off

we all just laughed at his ass!!!
it was crazy cause it was a morning class and everybody is all mellow and just waking up and then this kid gone wake everybody UP!!!

I will never forget that day!
he was talking to the teacher too.
So the teacher five days later was like..."Do you know that this boi still won't admit that that condom was his"
everybody laughed

he was so embarassed.
smh poor kid

I'll be damned if the class saw a used condom fall off the back of my pants.

When he finally admitted that the condom was his he tried to say... ohhh It was mine but I wasn't really usin it I was just tryna see what was up wit it"

...

Then he says

Oh I was just tryna pull a prank on tha class!!!

hahahahahahahaha

kid was buggin out!!!

[Ezkeel]

maybe thats why these kids drinking and eating death and breathing death are able to live so long!!!
lol
the sex keep em alive!!!
lol

[Lady Ashayt]

well the girl you refer to she was in college
but I was actually talking earlier about highschool!!!
lol
When I was in GA
I went to a few highschools... all of em were the same!!!
Freaks right and left!!!

One time this guy walks into the room and the teacher calls him up to the board to do a math problem,=.
It just so happens that it is the first class of the day... keep this in mind!!!
So as he is writing on the board a girls says to him you got some thin on your pants
he looks down and reaches to pick it off and it falls on the floor for everybody to see.
Its a used condom!!!
lmao
and he looks around the room all bewildered
"How in the world"
How did that get there?

he thought he was col enough to play it off

we all just laughed at his ass!!!
it was crazy cause it was a morning class and everybody is all mellow and just waking up and then this kid gone wake everybody UP!!!

I will never forget that day!
he was talking to the teacher too.
So the teacher five days later was like..."Do you know that this boi still won't admit that that condom was his"
everybody laughed

he was so embarassed.
smh poor kid

I'll be damned if the class saw a used condom fall off the back of my pants.

When he finally admitted that the condom was his he tried to say... ohhh It was mine but I wasn't really usin it I was just tryna see what was up wit it"

...

Then he says

Oh I was just tryna pull a prank on tha class!!!

hahahahahahahaha

kid was buggin out!!!

That is a funny story.   High school, huh? Though I'd like to say I am surprised, I am not, but I do wonder how much of the sex at that age is learning yourself vs. trying to get love/attention from others. 

maybe thats why these kids drinking and eating death and breathing death are able to live so long!!!
lol
the sex keep em alive!!!
lol

 

[Ezkeel]

Guyz(most of em) were ego trippin
Girlz- maybe... i think you right!!!

But everybody needs love

maybe havin all that sex aint the best way though