oral sex

[Nefertari]

Soooo I had this dream that I was in my boyfriend's body, and he was in jail, and was having a congical visit with his girl (who wasn't me) and he was eatung her out, the fucked up part is, that I tasted it! I was trying to make him stop but I was helpless, like those patients that say the anesthesia never kick in for surgery..
Now here comes the freaky part, my boyfriend had a dream that night that I was giving some guy head, but he couldn't see who

Neither of us have ever performed oral sex on each other or anyother person..sooo wtf?

[Djehuty-M]

Sounds like the both of you may be desiring oral sex and are experiencing the act in the astral plane where it feels safe.

[knix20]

took the words out of my mouth!!! except i was also going to say that possibly you all are having some type of insecurities subconsciously. Wonder 'hey if i dont do it to him he will go get it elsewhere" you both clearly want oral sex. were you in his body performing oral sex? or were you just viewing everything from his point of view?

[Djehuty-M]

KNIX: Wonder 'hey if i dont do it to him he will go get it elsewhere" you both clearly want oral sex.

Very true! This is why the couple IMO should experiment and get it out of the way. One or both of them will like it or dislike it but as Osho says, the mind would be put at ease after the experience, good or bad!

[Nefertari]

Hmmm interesting.. In the dream, I was in his body, not just observing. For the most part, we express what we do or don't like, and with past partners, I've never really enjoyed the oral sex, I was pretty bored, and I don't think he's ever been a recipient of it, sooo maybe that's where the thoughts are coming from...

Thanks!!!!