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Setep Seqen Ma'at
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« on: August 23, 2009, 09:53:17 AM »

I thought about asking given that if you have a singificant other who shares close to the same mindset as you and share sign as you, that it's compatible. Then again, I guess trade offs are good if you're dating someone of your compatible sign (ex: Virgo's compatible sign-Taurus and Capicorn) that has certain qualities that your own sign doesn't have, thus having a mutual connection or a yin/yang component to the relationship. Possibly when dating the same sign, the same attributes can only serve as clashes. What do you all think about this?
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« Reply #1 on: August 23, 2009, 10:41:12 AM »

Dating the same sign would really give you the opportunity to SEE yourself!
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« Reply #2 on: August 24, 2009, 09:58:37 AM »

I think its ok... however i would never ever ever date another cancer again ever in life... EVER lol
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« Reply #3 on: August 24, 2009, 11:21:42 AM »

I think its ok... however i would never ever ever date another cancer again ever in life... EVER lol

I second that...while I have several good friends that are the same sign...my craziest boyfriend was a cancer (as am I), and like Rae of Light no repeat on that lesson necessary!




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« Reply #4 on: August 24, 2009, 12:01:39 PM »

lol! exactly... My first bf ever was a cancer and was crazy as hell...
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« Reply #5 on: August 24, 2009, 12:07:54 PM »

I'm a sag/cap cusp but man am I attracted to capricorn women. Also many cancer women I can tell immediately by the wide high forehead and the large buttocks and thick thighs , my mouth waters at the sight of cancerian women literally.
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« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2009, 12:49:02 PM »

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« Reply #7 on: August 24, 2009, 12:50:48 PM »

lol! exactly... My first bf ever was a cancer and was crazy as hell...
I think its ok... however i would never ever ever date another cancer again ever in life... EVER lol

I second that...while I have several good friends that are the same sign...my craziest boyfriend was a cancer (as am I), and like Rae of Light no repeat on that lesson necessary!

Would you care to elaborate what you mean by crazy! I heard that alot that Cancers are supposed to be crazy or radical.



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« Reply #8 on: August 24, 2009, 12:58:31 PM »

Cancers in my oppinion are drama queens and self centered... Feelings are easily hurt then they jerks and wont let u kno when their feelings are hurt. So the treat u bad and expect for u to read their damn minds that changes every ten secs.. lol but of course im nothing like that! no i no my flaws and strengths and check the rationale of my feelings often... i say to myself why r u upset, is it worth it?

My first bf had so many feeling and of course i was always hurting them and he would just walk around up set with me... Then he was dramatic the littlelist things were turned into big argumens and fights. Eventually he went LOONEY and became obsessed with me, adn threatend to kill me.. An unbalanced cancer is the worst to deal with, they dont forgive!

But on the bright side... Im really nothing like that Smiley I don't like drama so I try to stick with earth signs. My best relationships were with a taurus and virgo. 
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« Reply #9 on: August 24, 2009, 01:05:57 PM »

You ain't seen nothin' until you deal with an unbalanced Scorpio!!! Oh Lawd!!!
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« Reply #10 on: August 24, 2009, 01:50:11 PM »

reflection is one thing
but when that reflection starts slapping you cross the head and ish because y'all bring out the worst in one another... ahh a whole nother thang right there!!!
lol.

Scorpios really have problems if you get on their/our bad side!!!
And a Scorpio knows how to get on the bad side of some one due to the intuitive nature.

So I pressed all the right(wrong) buttons!

smh

I like Virgos, Taurus (when they are not depressed!!)
Leos Sages Pisces caps...

Mostly Virgos and Pisces though
they always seem to be fyne and posses some form of depth and intuitive knowing/understanding
perfect combo for me!!!

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« Reply #11 on: August 24, 2009, 02:41:33 PM »

Cancers in my oppinion are drama queens and self centered... Feelings are easily hurt then they jerks and wont let u kno when their feelings are hurt. So the treat u bad and expect for u to read their damn minds that changes every ten secs.. lol but of course im nothing like that! no i no my flaws and strengths and check the rationale of my feelings often... i say to myself why r u upset, is it worth it?

My first bf had so many feeling and of course i was always hurting them and he would just walk around up set with me... Then he was dramatic the littlelist things were turned into big argumens and fights. Eventually he went LOONEY and became obsessed with me, adn threatend to kill me.. An unbalanced cancer is the worst to deal with, they dont forgive!

But on the bright side... Im really nothing like that Smiley I don't like drama so I try to stick with earth signs. My best relationships were with a taurus and virgo. 

My boyfriend was needy and claimed that he could love more than one person (and often tried to but came back crying as well), but got jealous as hell if another man looked at me...I was young, so we did bring out the worst in each other.  Also, he was an immature 26 yo freshman and I was a mature 18 yo freshman...so lots of differences to overcome  Wink 

In all seriousness though, if I had known astrology I would have recognized how out of balance he was while we were just friends.  That being said, for me the best sign so far has been Taurus for dating. 

I'm a sag/cap cusp but man am I attracted to capricorn women. Also many cancer women I can tell immediately by the wide high forehead and the large buttocks and thick thighs , my mouth waters at the sight of cancerian women literally.

I did not realize that the forehead and thighs were cancer traits...my husband says the thighs are what got him...
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« Reply #12 on: August 24, 2009, 08:18:37 PM »

Ya'll hating big time on cancers Grin.   I definitely agree with D when he says that you see yourself because I am dating a cancer as well and I can see so much of me in him or vice versa.  But he is the nicer version of that particular zodiac sign and I am the total opposite.  I guess you can call me the drama queen and the one with the attitude (even though I don't think I am), but that is what my friends say.  So far I mix well with water signs, but I CANNOT do virgos and sags.  We do not mix well at all as far as dating goes.
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« Reply #13 on: August 24, 2009, 09:43:01 PM »

Hmmmm, dating another Scorpio? Wow interesting...not sure how I feel about that, don't think I could handle another person that similar to me LOL unless he had a lot of fire or air in his chart, maybe that could balance with the extra fire in mine? IDK That would be heavy though I would probably suffocate and be ready to bounce with the quickness

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« Reply #14 on: August 25, 2009, 01:24:31 AM »

Its ok to date any sign, bc dig deeper than the sun sign and you have many more aspects that may be compatible. Based on just the same sun sign, many astrology books state that same signs are not a bad match, but can become boring or certain traits may be amplified in the relationship. ie. taurus'- the couple is extra stubborn, or complacent with just sitting at home with a movie. versus if you are with another sign ie. a taurus with a pisces may be more apt to put the movie down and go outside.

even though dating the same sign is not bad, in the end do you want to date yourself? Thats how i see it
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