"Sex-u-cation, Vol. 1" Special Foreword by Denika LaurieSomething like a phenomenon… Sexual EvolutionEverybody’s doing it and if they are not doing it, they are thinking about it. No doubt sexual gratification is at the top of a lot of people’s list for living a good life, but it is also at the top of the list for emotional traumas and dissatisfaction. Many determine their self worth on their ability to perform well sexually, and how well they control their reproductive organs while in the act. But is this really necessary? Have we allowed ourselves to go as far as we could possibly go with sexual-exploration/evolution? Have we limited ourselves to the physical acts of sex so much so that we cannot go beyond the animalistic behavior that it tends to produce? There are many things that we have not taken into consideration with our sexuality simply because we lack understanding as to the totality of our being and who we are as humans.
Sex DriveSex Drive is the force behind the marketing scheme for many corporations in America from music, to food, to clothing, electronic devices, and cars. Sex advertisement has become widely accepted and expected in American culture. What was once covert is now laid out in the open for all to see, including children. It can be considered common knowledge that the collective minds make up and form the reality we live in. So what does this say about us? The most notable thing is that as a society our sexual behavior has evolved little close to nothing. Besides the obvious proof shown in American culture of our non-evolution, we have our subtle energetic make-up to confirm what we already know.
Sexual EnergySexual energy is just that – energy. The human body has over 10 subtle energy systems that circulate, distribute, and cultivate life force energy, also known as chi. There are many forms of chi that enter the body. With all of the various kinds of chi that enter the body, not any one form was made to lie dormant or suppressed within the subtle bodies. The human body has been fashioned after that of the earth and by looking at the cycle of seasons of the planet we can come to understand the flow of life and how things should ideally function on a subtle energy level.
For the human, the flow of energy has been disrupted for many reasons. As a result of this energetic disruption (also known as emotional/mental imbalances), the individual has the inability as to how to express themselves (which is an outpouring and continued circulation of energy). The chi gets stuck or lodged in the sacral area where the reproductive organs are located. This “stuck chi” – when caught below the navel, stimulates sexual arousal which in turn will sexually arouse anyone that is present and emotionally/mentally receptive.
A continued disruption with the flow of chi throughout the body will begin to manifest physically since it has more than likely already manifested emotionally and mentally. When there is an influx of subtle energy coming into the body faster than it can express itself, the body communicates amongst itself within the realms of the subconscious mind and the organs/glands says that this “issue” needs to be resolved.
However, due to lack of proper knowledge of self, the individual seeks gratification outside themselves. They continue having sex to try to satisfy these urges and they use words like “bust”, “release”, “get off”, “break you off”, “jack you off”, “give it to me or give it to you”, “e-jac-ulate”, and “cum”.
What is ironic is that our choice of words is correct and we are clear that “something” needs to move and go somewhere, but we are uncertain as to how to go about it. So the individual gets stuck in this perpetual cycle of looking for love or something outside themselves, constantly pressuring their mate to create what they don’t have or what they want to experience, sexually. Some become super freaks, dressing up in costumes, bringing in multiple partners, using devices including animals, dvds and other props. Yet at the end of the day, the person is still unfulfilled. Now, I know in your mind you’re thinking to yourself, well it felt good, I climaxed and my mate climaxed and we are fulfilled. Yet people continue to have the exact same problems within their relationships from person to person to person. People have found a way to tolerate the mess of others simply so they can say they have someone in their life and they are not alone.
The massive amount of energy release otherwise known as “orgasm” will never bring one the love they seek. It will never bring peace of mind. It will not get rid of your problems – period.
The only reason this is so is because people choose to focus their thoughts on those things that are lower natured. The energy of the orgasm is directed by thoughts and during the time of life transition, whatever that may be, one has the ability to redirect that life-creating power into any other area of their life. Sexual energy is creative energy. The only way to produce the changes one would like to see in their life is by becoming the master of their mind. When the orgasmic energy climaxes and one feels the urge to let it go, it can either be drawn up into the body or redirected for removing imbalances, or the two individuals can choose to manifest things into their lives that will show up in the physical planes of existence. The orgasmic power will continue to recreate itself because the act of sex is opening up the subtle energy channels of the human body.
When the sexual energy is allowed to flow between two people, the subconscious mind, which is located throughout the body, will naturally produce the sounds and body positions that it needs to be in, in order to release the blocked chi. By saying this, I do not mean learned behavior. Circulating the blocked chi through sexual intercourse is but the first step and many seldom make it past this point. You will know you have passed this point because your will to connect with your partner gets deeper and expressing love will get stronger. Now, it’s not so much about just satisfying and calling it quits. You have now connected with your divinity and the true expression of divinity is Love. God is love and that is all that exists. When you release the things that have kept you emotionally and mentally drained, imbalanced, or stressed your awareness to your connection with Life and God will become more clear and evident.
Staying in the flow of chi while you are now making love allows you the possibility to go higher and into the realms of the heavens. One can get any answer that they need in life, they can help their loved one to heal emotionally and mentally, they can heal sickness and pain as well. The orgasms one feels, at this point and if directed correctly, can be experienced in any part of the body or throughout the body at once. The point is for you to realize that by changing your intentions and your thought patterns while in the midst of sexual intercourse, you can change your life and come to know your inherit divine power that has been untapped for quite some time. You have several powerful things that are taking place during love making: 1) you are experiencing an influx of chi; 2) you are opening up your subtle energy channels and clearing blocked chi; 3) you are tapping directly into the subconscious mind and can remove any self-sabotaging program; 4) you are opening up the realms of divinity and can come to know your higher self; and 5) you are participating in your sexual evolution.
Here one can see how they have several opportunities to go beyond what is considered the norm and open up their world to greater possibilities of human expression, which is ultimately what we consider evolution of the soul. Knowing and understanding the difference between lower natured sex and divine lovemaking is sometimes all that is needed to change your world. It is an opportunity to reach your highest human potential, right in your bedroom.
Denika “Lady FiNex” Laurie
Learn, Implement, & Develop your Energy Wellness for Optimal Health
Denika "Lady FiNex" Laurie,
Certified Theta DNA Practitioner
http://www.eternalkween.com
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