Women have been repressed sexually for thousands of years, both by men and themselves.
Women, If you want to release yourself from this repression. If you want to open your chakras and open yourself up to freedom and creativity, the one thing you must relearn is how not to feel guilty when masturbating (and you do mastburbate, just as much or more than men

). You must again become comfortable with your bodies.
As children, we all (men and women) are taught that pleasuring ourselves is bad; however, men tend to drop this nonsense after their first self induced "nut", whereas a women will carry guilt over this act to her grave.
As we all know, we are spiritual beings having a physical experience and because any experience is but a microcosm of the totally, to become locked into the experience is to be locked into something less than the totally of what we are.
So what happens is that when you are made to feel guilty about your own body, you become locked into the body, thus, cutting yourself off from your spiritual and mental capacities.
When you can masturbate without guilt for whatever reason (movement of overstored energy or simply pleasure), you will begin to reclaim soverignty over your sexuality and you will become a force to be reckoned with in every arena of your life (personal, business, etc.). You won't have a problem asserting your femininity. Another attribute of being able to "freely" perform this simple act of masturbation is that for the most part you won't allow yourself to be abused either physically, emotional or spritually. You'll be able to tell a nigga or niggress to fuck off with the quickness.
What must be understood is that inorder to get out of (transcend) the body you must first get into (accept) the body.
Finally, if you have children (boy or girl) don't pass this guilt to them and don't allow others to pass it to them, particularly if you have daughters; then take notice of your daughters. You will be fascinated with how expressive and creative they are and if throughtout their formative years they can remain psychically protected from individual ignorance and societal stupidity, nothing and no one will be able to stand in their way.