Another Dream of My Ex

[Paulie]

This is crazy, It felt to real. In my dream she came to me in a room i was on a bed and she sat on my lap to kiss me. I could see her face so clear this time. I knew she was in a relationship at the time in the dream but she look like she would be miserable if i didn't kiss her so i gave in because i care about her. When we kissed it still felt the same like we were in love. After we kissed i asked her why did she want to kiss me and she told me she wanted to feel that feeling she had not felt in such a long time. (With her back turned looking out the window at the sky with her hands on her chin like she was day dreaming)She told me she always wanted to be with me even in her other relationships and that she was waiting for me to come back. (In my mind I'm Like how was i supposed to know?) In real life i usually push her away when she uses me for comfort because shes in a relationship and i'm uncomfortable because of that but i would do it for the sake of her feelings (especially when i know she feels neglected if i don't) I woke up and remembered the dream and it was bizarre even still. In real life i have a dilemma about getting back with her or not but i lean more towards getting back with her because of love.

Is there a certain someone for everyone or do people have more then one soul mate?

[knix20]

Seems like you guys have a good physical attraction to one another. You should not let this blur your reasons for not being with her now. I think this dream is kind of a foreshadow of what can possibly happen. She currently is in a relationship and she is seeking your comfort. You however feel uncomfortable with this. In your dream you succumbed and kissed her. I think you have to decide will you let these physcial attractions take over or will you let the respect for the fact she is with someone deter you.

I think you all should talk. Maybe not alone in a house because things may happen. Talk over the phone, meet at a cafe. You have to reflect if you all should get back together or go your seperate ways. Obviously you stil have feelings bc you are dreaming of her and she is calling you. Buther current relationship is an obstacle.

I believe that there are different types of soulmates: friends, lovers, etc. We each are drawn to people. I think you can have more than one soulmate(lover), but there may be one that is the ultimate match. Just because you have met your soulmate does not neccessarily mean you will be together, for whatever reason.

[thegoodlife]

Woeeeeee, Kinx20 do not say that... Oh boy.......

[knix20]

lol say what?

[Paulie]

Thank you thegoodlife, i understood knix20. Thank you knix20 for your insight.

[knix20]

No problem Paulie!

I had a dream last night and you were in it. Not you physically b/c I dont know you, but I guess the dherbs board. You wrote another entry about your exgf. Im so struggling right now to remember what the post said, but I can just see the outline of it. It was a random dream, maybe I will remember later.

[Paulie]

knix 20 did you ever remember what that dream was about that you had of me and my ex? cause now shes coming up in my dreams again... idk and my exex is in my dream now also. it gets confusing

[knix20]

knix 20 did you ever remember what that dream was about that you had of me and my ex? cause now shes coming up in my dreams again... idk and my exex is in my dream now also. it gets confusing

Hey Paulie!

unfortunately, I do not remember what that dream was about. It was a long time ago and even then it was very vague to me.

Sometimes when people reoccur in your dream it could mean you should reflect on what in your current life parallels. if that gf was a very angry, unmoving person, it could possibly mean that you currently in that state.  or if that gf made you very happy and you had good times together, you could be yearning that currently or you are reminiscing. you stopped having these dreams, but now they are reoccurring. What has changed in your life from July to Sept? What in your life is similar to July and now Sept?

You stopped having dreams and now they are occurring again, seems to me like there was a trigger.

[Paulie]

actually yeah something did trigger it. lately i prayed to God for a wife very specifically and then all of a sudden she came, my ex before my ex, my 1st and the crazy thing about it she came on the date of our anniversary Aug-28 but as i started talking to her a lot of things had changed with her and it kind of gave me a change of thought and heart. she's alot different or maybe we just been apart for to long and chose diff path of life. but it didn't surprise me about that the thing that was astounding was that she showed up back in my life on that date rite after i got finish praying.. so idk, maybe it was a test or just a lesson. but i been fishing and forgeting about her, and it makes me think like maybe God showed me what i thought i wanted to assure me i didn't want it lol..

[knix20]

I would say keep doing what you are doing, reflecting and trying to decipher everything. In time you will understand everything.