I forgot to put this out in the universe!!!!

[newdeep]

I rarely ask people questions related to personal issues, but y'all feel like family, so here goes! Two years after my divorce I felt that I was ready to at least think about the possibility of having a great man in my life, so I put out in the universe what his qualities should be: no smoker, drinker, no tattoos, or earrings, not macho, nonviolent, good provider, loving caring and even down to his physical features.  Two more years had passed and then I met a gentleman in August of 2008 and we got to know each other and we adore one another.  He possessed all the qualities that I put out in the universe.  Mind you it had been 4 years since I had relations with anyone.  I felt that I was ready with him.  OMG, I wanted Mandigo in the bedroom, but all I got was Noodleman!  In the past if a man wasn't all that in the bedroom I would dump him in a heartbeat, but I don't want to be that shallow with him.  He is a kind and decent person.  I got some Jackrabbit formula for him because he took that damned Viagra in the past and I got on his case and told him that shit was garbage.  He took the Jackrabbit, but failed to feel the "quick fix" like Viagra.  I told him it would take some time.  He's kinda skeptical about the effects and I explained about the blood flow and all that, but I don't know if he's willing to change his diet and habits to get his "Johnny" working like it's supposed to.  So should I work with him or just tell him that if he doesn't try this method, I can't be with him.  I don't want to be shallow, but I need what I need. Help Dherbs family!!!!

[Goddyssey]

Dag, if only we could tamper with free will, huh? Cause when I fed my man a healthy diet, that ping ping responded! I mean length, width, and stamina. He really thought he was something then...I was like ni99a I made you. All I gotta do is put you back on pizza and steak...then watcha gon do? lol sorry...back to topic....

But I would really stress the importance of how much this really really means to me. How it would please me so if he would consider making this change. How it would drive me wild to have that cake iced. How fulfilling I want our sex life to be. Cause it's no longer about just you or me...it's us. And show your willingness to adapt to his needs. That's all I got. Most men want to be a dynamo in bed and will do what they gotta do as long as there's support. And if it doesn't work out...be sure to specifiy mandingo to the universe next time. 

[plzno]

Dag, if only we could tamper with free will, huh? Cause when I fed my man a healthy diet, that ping ping responded! I mean length, width, and stamina. He really thought he was something then...I was like ni99a I made you. All I gotta do is put you back on pizza and steak...then watcha gon do? lol sorry...back to topic....

LOL, that right there is hilarious!

[newdeep]

Dag, if only we could tamper with free will, huh? Cause when I fed my man a healthy diet, that ping ping responded! I mean length, width, and stamina. He really thought he was something then...I was like ni99a I made you. All I gotta do is put you back on pizza and steak...then watcha gon do? lol sorry...back to topic....

But I would really stress the importance of how much this really really means to me. How it would please me so if he would consider making this change. How it would drive me wild to have that cake iced. How fulfilling I want our sex life to be. Cause it's no longer about just you or me...it's us. And show your willingness to adapt to his needs. That's all I got. Most men want to be a dynamo in bed and will do what they gotta do as long as there's support. And if it doesn't work out...be sure to specifiy mandingo to the universe next time. 

Thanks Horuset, I talked to him again about the benefits of taking care of himself with diet and herbs and you know what, he's along for the ride now.  He knows that I truly care about his well-being so he's open to the possibilities.  After all, I did it because I cared and I didn't nag him or belittle him.  It's all good now!

[MATHYOU]

thats a dilly of a pickle...no pun intended

my last girlfriend didn't have much sex drive...at first she would let me stroke it for like 2 to 3 minutes LITERALLY and she would be like "okay can we stop"

then eye got her on a mostly vegan diet and eye got her up to 60 minutes

but then she got back on the poison and it went back to the 2 to 3 minutes and near the end she wanted me to wear condoms...so that was that

Dr Afrika says ancient Africans only had sex for baby making purposes...and om a big fan of him...so if she would have kept on the mostly vegan diet eye would have been able to deal with it

[aran504]

Dag, if only we could tamper with free will, huh? Cause when I fed my man a healthy diet, that ping ping responded! I mean length, width, and stamina. He really thought he was something then...I was like ni99a I made you. All I gotta do is put you back on pizza and steak...then watcha gon do? lol sorry...back to topic....

But I would really stress the importance of how much this really really means to me. How it would please me so if he would consider making this change. How it would drive me wild to have that cake iced. How fulfilling I want our sex life to be. Cause it's no longer about just you or me...it's us. And show your willingness to adapt to his needs. That's all I got. Most men want to be a dynamo in bed and will do what they gotta do as long as there's support. And if it doesn't work out...be sure to specifiy mandingo to the universe next time. 

LMAO, now that is too funny. (pizza and steak) Yes now you have to add conscious eater to your attribute list, makes it tough when so many Americans eat so poorly or the alternative get a good life insurance policy because the SAD diet surely kills your prematurely.