Weight and Orgasm

[Solomon19]

Hotep,

Does a woman's weight have anything to do with how fast she can have an orgasm? I ask because early in my relationship, when my wifey used to weigh about 30 pounds less, I remember giving her orgasms like it was no tomorrow. I remember on session I gave her 4 orgasms within a 20 minute time span. Now, after we have been together for some time and she has put on some weight, for some reason I'm finding that it takes much longer nowadays to get her to orgasm.

[FEFE1]

GOOD QUESTION....I BELIEVE IT HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT...I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE ANSWER...MAYBE THE BLOOD VESSEL GOING TO THE SPOT IS CLOTTED WITH FAT...

[Francine]

Soloman,
In my experience weight gain per se has not negatively impacted me in this area. If she is not responding the same, it could have something to do with hormonal changes, lack of energy, not enough foreplay, etc.  Does she think she is overweight? If she has a poor body imagine she would have difficulty concentrating etc.

[aran504]

OMG, Interesting you are attributing this as a woman's weight issue.  Are you doing the same things you did before?  Foreplay (mental, physical), are there financial issues, trust issues?  There could be many reasons unrelated to weight that could cause your wife lack of response to you physically.  Have you gained weight? Has your penis always reached it's maximum level of erectness every time? (LOL)

[Solomon19]

Hotep,


Actually, I havent gained any weight or anything of that nature. I do think weight has something to do with it as well as hormonal changes possibly.

[amanyamekye]

Do you think it might be the relationship?  What is your perception of her gaining 30 pounds?  How is that effecting your interaction with her on a conscious and unconscious level?  Organisms are also spiritual, emotional, and physical.  I believe that a women’s level of comfort, confidence and state of peace has an impact as well.  Perhaps there are other factors going on. Maybe there is some level of stress going on.