How Can I Make Sex More Spiritual?

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How Can I Make Sex More Spiritual?

ANSWER:

Sex in and of itself is spiritual. Spiritual sex is predicated upon your spiritual and sexual consciousness. Be consciously aware that God is always involved in the sex act. The goal/objective is on you and your mate. Think spiritual thoughts, feel your divinity, and express your creativity via the sex act. Sex is very creative, so much so that new life comes from this act!

What is the goal of sex for yourself? Do you want to just feel good physically? Satisfy a craving? Procreate a new human life? Open up all your energy centers? Physical orgasm? What is the goal of sex for yourself? You must define it!

Is sex meditative for you? Is it a form of divine communion? Is it therapeutic for you? Ask yourself and answer these questions.

Do you subconsciously see sex (without marriage) as a sinful act? Do you have any subtle or subconscious sexual inhibitions? Sexual guilt from past relationships or events? Any shame (from doing a sexual act)? Any fears about sex?

Do you make love or lust? Do you have sex from the lower 3 chakras or the higher 3 chakras? Sex must be a conscious act. A meditation, a prayer, a mantra (a physical mantra), an affirmation.

As a woman, do you know your 12 moon centers (errogenous zones) that all women have in a general sense? Are you aware of your sexual profile pursuant to your zodiac sign as well as that of your mate? Do you know what you desire, like and want from the sex act? Is your mind at peace in the sex act? Are you able to lose yourself in the sex act, traveling to different dimensions, traveling beyond the ethers?

Do you see your partner as your soul mate? Do you see the divinity within him? Does he see the divinity within you?

All of the above is for you to ponder on!

Now, as far as for tools to help enhance sex more on the spiritual level, YES, there are aids that can enhance spiritual sex.

Have a spiritual dialogue before sexual intimacy. Meditate for a few minutes before sexual intimacy. Say a prayer before sexual intimacy. Invite the love and romance angels on the scene. Do this (if you believe in them)! They bring a very angelic and pure presence on the scene. Bathe before certain sessions (as sometimes sex is very spontaneous and you need to go with the flow); but sometimes, plan your sexual sessions. Bathe in sea salt and aphrodisiac essential oils (Rose, Neroli, Jasmine, Davana, Sandalwood, Ylang Ylang, etc.). Add a few pieces (6-12) of Red Garnet crystals to the bath water. This is a powerful aphrodisiac stone (especially if you have serious open energy). Don't forget to add a few pieces of Rose Quartz cystals to the water as well. Rose Quartz emits the highest love frequency outside of the human body.

Burn your PINK candles. Pink is the frequency of the highest love vibration. Red is the sex vibration and pink is the love vibration. Have both of these colors on the scene.

After bathing together, rub on some oil (olive, almond, jojoba, etc.) laced with spiritual essential oils (Frankincense, Sandalwood, Sage, Lavender, Davana, Oakmoss, Bay, Cedar, etc.). Briefly massage each other (making sure you both massage each other's errogenous zones from head to toe). Depending on you guys' zodiac signs, also massage these key astrologically-influenced areas. If someone is a Taurus, make sure to kiss, lick, suck, and massage the neck and throat area. If someone is a Sagittarius, make sure to kiss, lick and massage the hips and thighs. Capricorn or Virgo? Kiss, lick, and massage the stomach/belly area. Pisces? Get busy on the feet and toes (which is why that spiritual soak/bath is important) and reflexology is a must for Pisces (feet and toes) and Aquarius (legs and ankles). Hey, sex is an art and science and requires a certian amount of knowledge in order to lose oneself to the point where no knowledge is needed or necessary.

Burn some aphrodisiac or spiritual enhancing essential oils in a diffuser. Incense will work as well. Make a spray elixir (essential oils of Cinnamon, Orange, Black Pepper, etc.) and spray your bed sheets and pillows. Make either an aphrodisiac elixir or a spiritual-enhancing one.

Sexual enhancing crystals? Of course! RED GARNET (look out now), GREEN AVENTURINE (esp. for males), TIGER'S EYE, MOONSTONE (the ultimate yin and ang balancing stone), and JADE (all colors, esp. Green).

And Music? Of course! Sweet, beautiful, tranquil and serene music is the best but it's your choice and play what you like. My personal choice is Eastern/New Age (with no lyrics, i.e. Kitaro, Steven Halpern, etc.).

A woman's lingerie or underwear should reflect spiritual colors - VIOLET/PURPLE or WHITE (purity). For passion, RED. For fun and games - ORANGE. Sexual healing - GREEN. Love - PINK. BLACK is earthy and therefore grounding. Leopard skin underwear/lingerie is for wildness, the need to be tamed, subdued! Not in a negative way, but in a fun, sexual and seductive way. Have fun with sex. Don't be serious. Religion and life (social) can make sex robotical, serious, methodical. Let loose, open up, TRUST (which is why you require the right partner), GIVE, RECEIVE!!!! Loose yourself, go with the flow! Moan, groan, scream, laugh, smile, breathe deeply, - do whatever comes naturally. Do that shit and don't care! Lose yourself - your conscience! When you lose your conscience , consciousness is what's left. Your conscience blocks your consciousness! You were not born with a conscience. Man and the world gave you a conscience. But you were born with consciousness. You died via your conscience. Reclaim your consciousness! Conscience limits you, consciousness frees you!

Okay, got to get ready on go. The Ma'at-Ra is on the road, so when more clock time is available, I'll add to this thread!