WARNING! This article contains mature subject material and language of a graphic sexual nature!
Men, there cannot be a wounded womb absent a wounded wand (ligham, penis). In fact, most wombs become wounded with the help of a wounded wand.
 How can the male wand not be wounded when it's penetrating some of the most wounded wombs around? You cannot penetrate that which is wounded and not become wounded yourself. The only exception being the guy who's a conscious sexual healer and who knows how to use his mind and wand to help energetically heal the wounded womb.
Though Marvin Gaye sang about sexual healing, however, sexual healing is real and can take place as the sex act, when engaged in with the right person, under the right circumstances, and with the right intent - can be very healing or therapeutic.
As my good friend Mo Christ Men (formerly Mo Dog Men) said a few years while speaking to a crowd at Venice Beach: "there's no ritual or act that opens, align/balance the chakras like sexual intercourse", and he's right. To prove it, all you have to do after being sexually intimate with your lover is check your chakras using a pendulum - simply holding the pendulum in your right hand while pointing to each chakra, chakra by chakra, with your left hand (index finger). Simply start from your Root chakra and move up to the Sacral chakra (or second chakra), then to the Solar Plexus chakra (third chakra), then to the Hermetic Plexus chakra (fourth chakra) and so on and so on.
In the alternative, each mate can simply do a quick chakra check on the other while lying flat on the bed or floor. This ritual can be a lot of fun and very informative.
When females are in their late teens and 20s, they're usually hyper-sexed and will let a guy 'hit it' (slang for 'have sex') whenever and however. They'll let guys 'hit it' doggy style (or from the back), perform anal on them, nut (ejaculate) all over them - on their face, hair, breasts, belly, etc.; spank/slap em', pull their hair, and just pound em' damn near to death. This is the scene today with the Hip Hop community, which has openly infused porn with rap music.
Now remember, these females are in their late teens and 20s (where they get most of their sexual lessons and experience here in the Matrix), however, they grow out of this stage as they mature. Usually, by their early 30s, they're tired of all the games and crap with certain males and are ready for serious and responsible living which means they're ready for mature relationships with mature men.
Plus, along the way to making it to their 30s, they're usually 'knocked up' a few times (where they get lessons from the act of abortion) and a few times they actually give birth and have children to take care of and think about, so maternal instincts naturally override preoccupation with recreational sex, so sex usually slows down for most women when they enter their 30s.
Now mind you, I didn't say they stop having sex. I clearly stated that they SLOW down with sex, and of course there are exceptions to the rules with the lady nymphos and freaks out there who are just hyper-sexed by nature, usually predicated upon some placement in their natal chart (a lot of Mars, Venus, Scorpio, Leo, Taurus, 5th House and 8th House) and/or past life seed (whereby the particular woman was sexually suppressed or repressed, perhaps she lived the life of a nun or religious celibate).
So while these females who are now in their 30s and perhaps with a child or two, or three, or four, that while in their teens and 20s where hyper-sexed, uninhibited, promiscuous, etc., have matured or been hit hard by reality and are looking to slow their role and take life more seriously and responsibly and looking for a man (mate) who can help take care of her and her children and/or be a husband and father and do the family thing.
But the problem is, at least in our society (U.S.), the males who are now in their 30s, have not matured and do not want to settle down. They still want to act like they are in their teens and 20s and still want the wild and freaky sex as much as they can get it.
Sex takes energy and rearing children, especially by one's self, can be very energy draining. Just ask any woman who's raising two, three, or four children by herself. Child rearing is energy draining and a lot of women are so drained from their role as single parent, they are pissed off! And pissed off at men too, stemming from being pissed off at the children's triffling ass father.
I'm telling you, this is a BIG reason why so many African-American women are so angry (whether they'll admit it or not): left to raise children from a man who disappointed and hurt them. I'm not saying this is the case for all African-American women, of course, but a lot of them.
And don't let the child be a male child and look just like the father. Every time the woman looks at the child she'll see and be reminded of the male that disappointed, hurt, and injured her (which is not good for that particular male child).
Now, we have women who have matured and/or been hit hard with reality about life and how things are and are now more into intimacy than wild, freaky, buck wild sex (not saying that they don't like wild, freaky, buck wild sex every now and then) but we have males who have not matured and still act like they are in their teens and 20s, which makes sense pertaining to African-American males in general as for this group of males, they are ten years behind mentally contrasted with their chronology.
Therefore, using this yardstick, a 30-year old African-American male ON AVERAGE has the mind or mindset or mentality of a 20-year old.
A 36-year old African-American male ON AVERAGE has the mind or mindset or mentality of a 26-year old.
 A Black woman looking for mental and intellectual stimulation and compatibility from within her race has to aim for a man at least 10 years her senior, and even then and still, this does not ensure she will receive the mental and intellectual stimulation and compatibility she desires.
So even well into their 30s, it is very common for many African-American males to still be living at home with their parent or parents, not having their own apartment or house, unemployed (and no desire to look for a job); dressing is sports clothing (usually pro brand name clothing: jerseys, baggy shorts, tennis shoes, etc.), sitting around all day and watching BET (Black Entertainment Television) and/or playing video games like X-Box 360, Sony PlayStation, Wii, Nintendo, etc., hanging out with the fellas (on the street corner or at the playground on the court), etc.
And the above does not mean that you can't find white males, Asian males, or Hispanic or Latino males in the same predicament while in their 30s, or, white, Asian, and Hispanic/Latino females experiencing the same situation with men of their race or ethnic group. The situation is not just limited to African-Americans or Blacks. By no means is this the case.
Clearly, this type of male described above cannot do or offer anything to a woman (who's in her right mind and got her priorities in life in order) but his toxic and degenerate semen via the sex act. He's pretty much nothing but a stud, a buck, and may even be an ideal bedmate for a woman who lives the independent woman life, not needing a man for nothing but physical, low vibrational sexual fulfillment.
Now if this particular male in his 30s do have the 3 basics of a man in our society: car, apartment, and job (perhaps with benefits), usually, he's still going to want to perform the same kind of wild, freaky sex with his woman often, and again, child-rearing, coupled with working a job, maintaining the home front, and perhaps even attending school is energy draining so the frequency of such wild and freaky sex is not likely to be met, causing this kind of particular male to mess around on the side (cheat), usually with a younger female (in her late teens and 20s) who has the type of sexual energy and sexual uninhibition along with the desired vulnerability, naivete, gullibility, etc. that usually makes for a sexually merry time for this particular male.
When men cheat with younger women, it's usually for the reasons above. So women (who are reading this article), don't be shocked if your man cheats on you with a young hoodrat or skank-type of female. This type of female doesn't have anything on you except for age (she's younger), gullibility, naivete, vulnerability, hyper-sexed, and perhaps sexually promiscuous and sexually uninhibited, allowing your man to do things to her that you are not letting him do to you at all or not enough.
Again, this is not the sole reason(s) for why some men cheat, but a major reason for why some men cheat.
Okay, time to get back on track! We're still dealing with the wounded wand.
One of the quickest ways for a man's wand to become wounded is to have sex with the attractive woman who only has external beauty going for her but who is seriously damaged on the emotional, psychological, mental, spiritual, and other energetic levels (including etheric and kethartic).
This kind of injured female usually has attached entities residing in her yoni (vagina) and womb that during sex with her, attaches to the man's wand (penis) and may also attach themselves to a man's prostate gland and testicles.
In all truth and honesty, just as men and women are passing back and forth sexually transmitted diseases, they are also passing along negative attached entities that feed on the energy from negativity and low vibrational sex.
The more an injured man and woman have sex, the stronger their cord becomes, and despite the fact that both cords are severely damaged.
This is why some men cannot figure out why a certain female (who may be fine as hell) craves union, companionship, and especially sex, with a certain guy who may abusive, who dogs her out: disrespects her, misuse her, abuse her, etc.
She's connected to this guy at certain cords. Just thinking about the guy makes her brain secrete oxytocin which makes her vagina contract (for his wand) and lubricate and when this happens, a woman usually wants to be penetrated, so either the woman will pick up the phone and request the guy to come over and serve her ('hit it'), or, because her thoughts about the guy and having sex with him or being penetrated by him are so strong, she telepathically sends out a transmission to him in the ethers that he picks up on and begins to think about her and thus picks up the phone and tells the woman that he wants to come over or tell the woman to come over to his place.
 Now for the record, the above happens or can happen to the most healthiest of us and I'm quite sure many readers of this article can vouch for this statement. Energy is not a respecter of persons. So, a healthy couple can experience the same things as an injured or damaged couple; but the thing about the damaged couple is that it keeps two damaged and injured persons connected for all the wrong reasons (above the surface, that is).
Fellas, you cannot disrespect, misuse and abuse the womb, an organ that bore you, and not end up disrespecting, misusing, and abusing your womb (which is the prostate gland). For every reproductive organ a woman has, a man has.
Men and women have corresponding and correlating sexual reproductive organs. For example:
A man's prostate gland corresponds and correlates to a woman's uterus.
A man's testicles correspond and correlate to a woman's ovaries.
A man's wand (penis) corresponds and correlates to a woman's clitoris.
A man's vans deferen corresponds and correlates to a woman's Fallopian tubes.
One of the metaphysical causations for men experiencing so many prostate gland problems, i.e. BPH (benign prostatic hyperplasia), prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate gland), and cancer of the prostate, has to do with the karma (individual and gender-wise) from disrespecting, abusing, and harming the female uterus.
The harm done to the uterus comes back at guilty males and situates in the male womb.
Men also hold a lot of anger for women in their prostate gland. All organs hold memory, positive as well as negative.
The negative effects of preoccupation with worldly power and control also situates in the male prostate. There are no scientific facts or data to substantiate this claim because it's purely metaphysical and cannot be quantified or measured.
The prostate gland is also where we men hold or store our emotional and sexual drama and trauma (which we do have) as well as the sexual consciousness (and memory) of all the women (and men, for the homosexual males) they have been sexually intimate with. Remember, the prostate gland is the male equivalent of the female uterus and it is the uterus where women hold and store their emotional and sexual drama and trauma as well as their sexual consciousness and memory of all the men (and women) they too have been sexually intimate with.
The seat of the government of a woman's reproductive system is located at the Sacral (second) chakra which deals with Goddess consciousness and the metaphysical or energetic attributes of sexuality, relationships, wealth and money, and pleasure, specifically sexual pleasure.
When men allow their emotional and sexual dramas and traumas, plus their resentment and anger, to go unchecked (ignored, unhealed) tumors metastasize. The tumor may be malignant. Cancer of the prostate may be the diagnosis.
Metaphysically, cancer is the "eating up" inside or inwardly because people hold on to toxic emotions, stress, drama, and traumas and allow these things to "eat them up" or "eat away at them" (their soul or spirit, that is).
Male prostate problems may also signify or denote issues with masculinity, manly power, the ability to provide as a man for a woman and child(ren), especially in a financial sense; and/or, lack of control of the direction of one's life.
The inability to express one's self as a man may also contribute to prostate problems on the energetic realm. We have to deal with the truth of the matter that in the United States and especially in the Black community, it is almost taboo for men to express themselves as men (and in manly ways due to the picture neo-feminists have constructed pertaining to how men should express themselves, according to these particular women (neo-feminists)).
Out of fear of being labeled misogynistic or sexist, many men simply just keep their mouths shut so as to not rock the boat and try to placate these particular neo-feminist females.
Men have to express themselves and need to express themselves, however, they have to express themselves under control, not physically express themselves (which can become violent).
Many men have to learn to express themselves with a level head. The intelligent man expresses himself intelligently (despite the tone of his voice) and does not lose control (over himself).
Men too have a sensitive side. That sensitive side of men was put into a lyric by rapper Tupac Shakur who said 'Even thugs cry.' Thugs (hardened males) crying means hardened males too have a sensitive and vulnerable side, even if hidden, hence, "men cry in the dark', a book by author and talk show host Michael Baisden. Basically, men crying in the dark mean men cry in secret, but the fact remains that men are crying, which is a form of emotional release.
Expressing ourselves (as male and female) is imperative for good health because when we express ourselves, speaking our highest truth and from the Solar Plexus chakra (where our principles for which we stand for are situated and foundated) we help keep our Throat chakra (5th Chakra, Vissudha in Sanskrit) open and balanced. The Throat chakra is where we express our higher truth and higher creativity.
The Taurus or Taurean male (males born between April 20 and May 20) really need to be in sync with expressing himself because Taurus rules or governs the throat and failure for the Taurus man (or even the Taurus woman) to express himself or communicate freely and openly can result in specific health maladies such as sore throat, raspy voice, tonsilitis, itchy throat as well as complaints of the respiratory tract, nose, neck, and ears (which are also ruled or governed by Taurus).
Keeping things in (not expressed) when they should be expressed or communicated is one of the metaphysical causes of throat cancer. We must always speak our truth. Always!
If you are a man that is predisposed to anger and thus communicate in a very fiery, caustic, and insensitive way, simply count to 10, take a few deep breaths, and then speak.
If my little cousin, Dennis Grimes, would have done this (above advice), he'd be a free man today instead of serving time (17 years) in state prison. Had he only counted to 10 in his head and/or just took a few deep breaths and THOUGHT before he acted, he would have never physically harmed his girlfriend and thus would be free to live the life of his choice/desire. But he lost his life, or 17 years of it, because anger got the best of him and he acted on anger and impulse, acting without or before thinking.
So men, we have to really learn how to communicate more in non-physical ways. Women (who are balanced) really don't respect you when you get physical with them and beat them. They are mental creatures and thus you are apt to get more respect from them by using intelligence and controlling your actions. Now there is that proverbial exception to the rule with certain injured females who do like for men to beat them because to them it shows that the abusive male cares for them. I had a few female cousins who thought in this unhealthy way.
Okay, we're still dealing with the wounded wand.
One of the ways we men damage and injure our wands and auxiliary sexual reproductive glands and organs is by way of excess ejaculation of semen (via organ penetration and/or masturbation) which causes us to lose precious and vital nutrients in addition to 'chi' and other mystical secretions which causes or leads to sexual exhaustion. So nowadays, it is not uncommon to find males in their late teens and 20s who are unable to attain and/or maintain an erection. I know firsthand because I have counseled some of them.
I would have certain East Coast rappers calling me late at night telling me how they had a fine groupie buck booty naked and ready to bang (have sex with) and couldn't get it up (could not attain an erection) and was embarrassed. These dudes were in their late 20s and early 30s and were experiencing erection problems.
Masturbation not only causes loss of vital nutrients and chi, but it can cause inflammation of the penis (from constant stroking), especially if no lubricant or moist substance (i.e. lotion, jelly) is used during the process.
Another way we men damage and injure our wands (lingham, penis) is when we contract or continually contract STDs (sexually transmitted disease) which we do by way of the sex act. STD's greatly impair both male and female sexual reproductive health and leads to debility of the sex glands.
Men also damage and injure their wands by engaging in anal sex. The rectum is the site of fecal bacteria that seep into the opening of the penis.
Men also damage and injure their wands by wearing condoms while in the sex act. Condoms are laced with very harmful chemicals that can irritate the skin of the penis.
The petroleum-based lubricants that men apply to their wands for purposes of anal intercourse are also deleterious. Anything applied to the surface of the skin eventually seeps into the skin and enter the bloodstream and thus travels throughout the entire body and gives the liver another toxin to combat.
Excess sexual intercourse harms the wand in the sense that excessive sexual intercourse doesn't allow the penis adequate time to rest and repair itself. Thus, the organ becomes taxed!
And just as the female vagina needs to breathe (being a breathing organ), so does the male wand (lingham) and testicles.
One of the biggest contributors to penile and testicular asphyxiation are tight briefs (shorts, underwear). They may be sexy to the ladies, but the intelligence of your wand and testicles don't think so. And yes, your sexual organs and glands too have intelligence. They are also thinking organs and thinking organs also hold memory.
No act begins the damage and injury to the male wand than the unnecessary surgical operation called circumcision. If you are outraged about and against female genital/vaginal mutilation, then you should also be outraged about and against male circumcision of infant boys. This unnecessary process and procedure removes a large amount of penile skin (the size of a dollar bill) that contains very important nerve endings that if left intact would allow the male to experience more pleasure and ecstasy while in the sex act with females. Males would not be so dependent upon the excessive stroking of the female vagina during coitus to receive sexual pleasure. They would receive more (pleasure) from the skin cut away and disregarded from the unnecessary circumcision (male genital mutilation).
Circumcision is a very painful act and the memories of the pain are stored in the tissues and cells of the wand (penis). This harm done to infant males is usually done by other males, grown males - medical doctors called surgeons. Surgeons are the ballers of the medical profession.
Continued in Part 2.
Thank you for reading.
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