WARNING: This article contains mature subject matter and language of a strong sexual nature and sexual-vulgar content!
A feeling of guilt from past sexual acts and experiences result from one thing: IGNORANCE! Ignorance that there is no right or wrong or good and bad but only experiences, and experiences that allow us to make better choices in our future.
 Our choices should always cause us to progress in life, to get a benefit, to learn more lessons for advancement on our soul-journ.
A mistake many people make is bringing a negative view of God into the sex act. God doesn't care what you do sexually. Never has! You were given free will to do as you please as long as you don't harm another or violate another person's rights. The only thing you must be aware of is the Law of Consequences or Cause and Effect (karma).
However, you should take heed to the Kemetic maxim "Know thyself!" When you know thyself, then you'll know what to do or what you should do, including in the sex act.
Sex merely gives an experience and an experience can be good or bad predicated upon your perception or how you look at things which may be influenced by your belief systems, especially your religious belief system in particular.
Most people's sexual belief systems are influenced by their religious belief systems. You will especially find this amongst Jews, Christians, and Muslims. Many people will not engage in certain sex acts because of their religious beliefs and what they think God approves of and disapproves of.
But again, sex is an experience. If you enjoyed the sex and feel good about it afterwards, you label this as a good experience or good sexual experience, but if you didn't enjoy the sex for whatever reason(s), then you label it as a bad experience or bad sexual experience. Either way you had sex.
Experiences can cause harm but they can also heal. When a person is sexually raped, molested, or assaulted, harm is done. Absent consent, violation has occurred (though karmic debts are being paid and life scripts acted out simultaneously).
In these situations above, negative karma has been created as well as paid off too. Rapist or assaulter may have created the karma and the victim (participant) may have paid off. Nothing happens to us without our permission or approval to happen, even if said approval was agreed upon and originated in a past-life.
"But what about the consent (between two people) given in this lifetime?" Well, without the absence of consent you don't get the particular experience you need and scripted or charted out. It may be a violation on the 3D earth plane level, but that's it. Spiritually speaking, something higher is taking place that serves the Sunnum Bunnum (Greater Good) as well as your self (pertaining to the Life Script and Chart you created for yourself).
Listen, you wrote your life script or chart and chose everything about your self and your life. Everything, and I mean everything! Nothing was given to chance, and I know this is a hard pill to swallow for many people, but in your world (of man) a lot of torment and anguish comes from not understanding why certain events, situations, and circumstances occurred in your life or even why certain people came into and out of your life.
Many have been taught that everything is exclusively in God's hand and you have no say in your own life and/or destiny and this is a damnable belief and causes much trouble in the form of grief, confusion, guilt, anger, and other negative emotion.
Again, experiences can cause harm but they can also heal. When a person consents to sex and the act leads to powerful orgasm and reaches other levels of your existence: emotional, spiritual, mental, etc, healing has taken place, especially on the energy body level. The chakras become open and aligned or balanced.
Knowledge is power and so is sexual knowledge. Sexual knowledge and the application of sexual knowledge is power. All knowledge must be applied if you are going to derive power or be empowered from it.
While I won't cover it here, I will mention that in addition to sexual knowledge there is also sexual wisdom and sexual understanding.
Sexual guilt arises from ignorance but this ignorance is predicated upon ignorance of the chakras, your energy vortexes. You see, when you have sex based upon the lower chakras and their negative or imbalanced attributes, negative emotion will arise, such as guilt.
Guilt comes from having sex out of fear, dependence, addiction, quid pro quo (something for something), feeling forced, having sex with someone against your better judgment, having sex while numbed (drugs, alcohol), and emotionally imbalanced.
But guess what? You can only feel guilty after you convict yourself. In law, we know guilt only comes as a consequence of a verdict of guilt. So if we feel guilty, who convicted us? Can you say: OUR SELVES! No one can make you feel guilty about anything except yourself and don't you ever forget this! All power lies with YOU! If you ever feel someone is more powerful than you, it's because you gave your power away to that person. Period!
 Now after guilt comes punishment which comes in a host of ways, such as sexually transmitted disease, unwanted pregnancy, abortion, reproductive disorders and pathologies, and series of unhealthy relationships that we unconsciously attract and stay in as some form of punishment (or continued punishment) and perhaps from something experienced 5, 10, 15 to 20 years ago. We do this! And to ourselves! No one else!
This is why we must come up spiritually and start acting from our higher chakras and doing things out of unconditional love, compassion, care and concern, genuineness, integrity, healing, etc. Sex is no exemption here.
Lower chakra sex is done for survival purposes. Many women right now are only having sex with a guy because he financially takes care of her (or just simply pays her bills), whereas others are having sex out of a wanting and desire to feel loved perhaps from not having a father or strong, dominant male father figure on the scene as a little girl and now seeks to compensate this loss by seeking love from an older man, the proverbial "sugar daddy." However, you can't get love out of sex if the Fourth Chakra is not open and activated.
Males will do the same thing to compensate when they lack that warmth and love from a mother. These males will look for a female to take care of them just as a mother would. These types of males will also seldom reach true manhood! Manhood is not derived from womanhood! Only men can make men.
Many males and females are having sex simply because they cannot control their sexual urges. The urge has more power than they do due to diminished willpower. So they will have sex pursuant to sexual agreement or contract (called "bed partners" or "fuck buddies").
You see, they are not compatible in life outside of bed (they could be but really don't spend the quality time or want to spend the quality time to find out), may not really find one another attractive, but most significantly, don't want any responsibility to the other person whatsoever.
The worst thing females did in recent decades, in my opinion, was to give up the vagina without any attachments, stipulations, demands, and/or responsibilities. This is where so much disrespect of females by males comes from, especially amongst African-Americans. Men used to have to work for the woman (or the vagina, not to commoditize women but to make a point, so stay with me).
They had to bring something to the table (relationship), prove their worth and good intentions. They had to prove their worthiness to get into a woman's good graces, her mind, and ultimately her behind (figure of speech meaning 'between her legs').
They got the door for a woman, took off her coat, pulled her chair out for her to sit down at the table, bought her flowers and candy, etc. But nowadays, a man really doesn't have to do anything for the woman and he still gets rewarded with sex; good wild freaky sex too! This, in my opinion, has really cost the Black community collectively today. I feel it's one of the main reasons why Black women are generally not viewed as viable marriage partners or potential wives and why 60% of Black women are single (not married) and why 40% have never been married. After all, who buys the damn cow when you can get all the milk you want for free?
I also feel that the above is why many males of different races and ethnicities for the most part only view Black women as sexual play things, a piece of ass, or walking sperm banks. Good enough to fuck, but not to marry! Only Black women themselves can change this negative image of themselves and simply so by simply changing their thought patterns and process, personal attitudes about themselves, and their behavior and actions (how they carry themselves, especially in public) which laps over into morals, etiquette, mannerisms, and ethics.
Stereotypes are created by focusing on the actions and behaviors as well as language of a minority or fringe aspect of a particular group of people and then projecting them onto the majority or collective of that particular group in the general public's eyes.
In my opinion, it's never the media's fault for creating stereotypes. Absent a group to focus on, there could be no stereotype created. To change or end a stereotype, simply change the subject group of the stereotype and the stereotype goes a way. The media simply focuses upon what's there to focus upon. You couldn't have a Black gang member stereotype absent the existence of a Black gang member. You could force the media to only show good or positive or show nothing at all. Either way, there's nothing bad or negative shown about a particular group. You see, power is truly with the people to change things; not corporations or governments, but people.
And yes, the media can manufacture a stereotype without real life individuals, but without real life individuals to display a stereotyped trait in society, the stereotype eventually dissipates due to people in general in the society not coming into contact with or witnessing the real life stereotyped behavior or actions shown in the media.
Why should a man do anything for a woman that he doesn't have to prove his worth to; doesn't have to do anything for; doesn't have to respect, etc., but can still have or get sex any time he feels like it?
Women have to fault and blame themselves here and take responsibility for the unwise choice of lowering their standards, because this is what it boils down to - LOWERING ONE'S STANDARDS.
If you lower the bar you can't expect people to jump (aim) high. If you let a man be no good to you, then he will. Period! And nowadays, many people are simply giving people what they want or desire. Many Black females today, mostly of the younger hip hop generation, prefer and desire a thug dude or no-good dude for sexual relation purposes so many otherwise good Black males are stepping up to the plate and playing or acting out the desired role and giving these particular females what they want so as to get what they want: cheap or free sex with no real commitment or commitment at all.
This is why there are so many studio gangsters today in rap music. A studio is a place where you go to act or stage a production, a place where your acting is filmed. Once you leave the studio, there's no more acting. You go back to being regular Joe Blow and you let television do the rest. People will fall in love with a manufactured image created in a studio.
So again, women have to fault and blame themselves here and take responsibility for the unwise choice of lowering their standards, because this is what it boils down to - LOWERING ONE'S STANDARDS.
Women, you can't fault anyone but yourself! One thing about this life here on planet Earth, we always have choice! Always! But of course folks don't always make the most informed and wise choices. How can they when they lack information and wisdom? You can't make an informed choice absent information and you can't make a wise choice absent wisdom.
 There's no more courting or really even dating, or old school dating, these days. Actually, I dislike the word "dating' because it's a term prostitutes use on the streets nowadays. Back in 1995-1996 while I was on Figueroa in South Los Angeles one day, this young Black female came up to me and asked me was I dating. I looked at her like "What?" But she kept asking me was I dating. But I put two and two together because after all, we were on Figueroa and if you're from Los Angeles or know anything about Los Angeles you know that the prostitutes or whores hang out on Figueroa and Sunset Boulevard. Well, actually, they say the prostitutes/call girls are on Sunset and the 'hoes' are on Figueroa. This just means that you find most of your white female prostitutes on Sunset Boulevard and find most of your Black and Hispanic prostitutes on Figueroa.
So the word 'dating' nowadays means 'fucking.' It's a mild way of saying you are having sex and money is being spent to ensure this sex."
You actually hear this word ('dating') a lot amongst the females mainly. Women will be like: 'I used to date him.' And men will be like, "did you fuck him?" Because many dudes, the naïve or oblivious ones, will interpret dating as going out like friends, that things were strictly platonic. But if a woman has been dating a dude like for three, four, or five months, most coat-tailed pulled dudes know that most dudes ain't going to be going out with a particular female for that amount of time and not get his bed on. Men know men, for the most part! Men know what other men what because they know what they themselves want, and when it comes to women it's pussy!
But many women will say they 'dated' a guy as a euphemism or code word that they used to merely go out with a guy and have sex with him though not committed in a relationship. There's no commitment, just an understanding (that they'll go out, money will be spent (usually by the male or the person who really wants sex the most), and sex will be exchanged as a consequence).
Men will use the word ('dating') too! However, men tend to commonly say they "went out with" or "used to go out with" a particular female. But it means the same thing as dating. They used to go out and later fuck. That was the deal!
Courting was different because when you think of the word court, you get just that: a court, as in a court of law; and while in court, you had to prove your case, and you always proved your case by presenting evidence on your behalf that moved all reasonable doubt.
Basically, courting allowed you to put forth evidence to the other person as to why you are qualified to be their mate (husband or wife) or future father or mother of his/her children. Before the mid-1970's, Blacks used to be more long term in nature with their relationships, and not so short-termed as we are today, simply thinking about what we can get or experience only today without ever thinking about the future (building a future with a person).
Okay, point made and now continuing: You're meeting people and fucking on the first 'date' or night and you don't know hill Billy jack grits about this person and then you wonder why you wake up a few days later burning with a discharge and stench coming from your vagina or a bunch of painful pimples, bumps, or blisters on your penis, swollen and painful testicles, and when urinating it feels like you're pissing out razor blades.
Out of control sexual urges are ruining lives and hardly nobody, save the grassroots metaphysical teachers and healers are teaching the sexual occult sciences, such as consciously raising your sexual energy (Kundalini) up to the higher chakras so as to express that pent up sexual energy in the form of higher creativity. That sexual energy is trapped in the lower chakras and that's why you hear about so much lower frequency sex today, especially with today's youth in general, hip hop youth in particular.
So today, you have dudes, especially these wanna-be thug types and white bred college boys with no moral or ethic restraints, who simply just want to fuck a woman in the ass just to be doing something, to dominate her, to abuse her. They derive a sick pleasure from her pain or a sense of abusing her, or, dominating her (if the female enjoys the activity). This is the level many are on these days. Black youth as well as Caucasian youth, but American youth and adults in general. Their level is real low vibrationally.
They'll ejaculate in her mouth and on her body just to be doing something, just to leave a mark on her body which is really an energy mark unconsciously left on her.
Many will film such activity and sell it to one of the numerous porn-based websites that are so rampant today. So you'll find various photographs of young females (of all races, i.e., Caucasian, Black, Hispanic, Asian, etc.) smiling with sperm all over their faces or looking up while performing fellatio with a penis in their mouth, or even with a penis in their rectum, all done to incite sexual lust and fish in a new customer to the porn site.
The Matrix uses lower chakra sex to keep U.S. subjects on a very low vibrational level so as to easier control them. It's no accident that porn is so rampant today along with degenerate faux food (fast food).
We've always had porn in this society but never was it so easily accessible but the Inter-net changed all of this. But again, it serves a major purpose. All you see is lower chakra sex because of what it does to you. You are shown this on purpose. You see you aren't inundated and bombarded with scenes of Tantric and Taoist sex and/or Tantric and Taoist sex websites. Oh hell no! Why? Because then you'd be learning about raising that Kundalini energy up into your higher chakras and activating those specific centers and experiencing their attributes, i.e. unconditional love, compassion, reciprocity, higher creativity, honest expression and communication, intuition, telepathy, clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, Christ consciousness, astral projection, linking with your Higher Self, accessing the Akasha or Akashic records, etc.
The Rulers know you'd get free of their grip (control) if you were exposed to Tantric and Taoist sex principles, or even the Kemetic and occult sexual sciences; so you see, they purposely allow you to be inundated with porn so your mind can become embroiled with what you are seeing so as to carry out what's in your mind (knowing you are a sheep), but doing major harm on all levels of existence because you are not knowing or understanding the damage done, especially on the energy level, the psycho-intuitive and emotional levels, when you are swallowing and ingesting sperm from numerous males, being rectally penetrated, vaginally penetrated by multiple partners, called all sorts of names that carry certain low vibration (but which also invoke), and most significantly, lowering your auric field and allowing certain entities to attach to your aura and enter into your aura which is a portal into your energetic core body; entities that feed off of lust and the energy that comes from lower chakra sex.
Energy healer Denika Laurie states the following:
"By giving ANY man access to her yoni (vagina), through sex, executes a binding, energetic contract that affects the outcome of her life's journey. Women forget that they have the power to choose what comes into them, what stays, and what is sustained by them - all through the centripetal life force energy the vibrates ever so freely throughout her womb-portal."
There is more danger in a woman being penetrated than in a man penetrating simply because the vagina has a receptive energy due to being yin in nature. It receives or takes in and harbors (though it can recycle as well as expel)!
The penis on the other hand has an active energy. It emits or discharges! It can also receive and harbor as well. Males are subject to taking in negative energy from the vagina because every opening on the body of both male and female contains a portal (chakra) and every opening contains recorded information or data and when you are dealing with the openings of the penis (at the tip), the vagina, rectum, and even the mouth, information recorded and stored at these sites are picked up, including information about all the people who have penetrated or entered these body parts. Energy records all! Everything! Just like the subconscious minds takes in or records everything you see, hear, taste, smell, and feel. You must become conscious to successfully live, prosper, and thrive in the Matrix.
Freeing Yourself of Guilt
1. First recognize the fact that 'your' past is just that, 'your' past! What's done cannot be undone. Extract the lesson(s) and move on in the present.
2. Forgive yourself of your negative past actions and all harmful things you did to yourself or allowed to happen to yourself while in an unconscious state and under ignorance. True forgiveness begins the healing process.
3. Forgive all who have harmed, injured, violated, abused, hurt, disappointed, and used you in the past. Recognize the role you played in every happening, situation, circumstance, or drama in your life.
4. Recognize that there is really no right or wrong or good and bad, only experiences which leads to different choices being made in the future, preferably choices that benefit you, allows you to develop, learn, mature, grow, advance, and progress on all levels in your life.
5. Recognize that God gave you free will to make choices as you please and does not look down upon or frown upon any sexual activity you may have engaged in, are presently engaged in, or will be engaged. There is only the creation of personal karma and the Law of Consequences (Cause and Effect), no divine chastisement as some religious groups and cults preach and teach. The boogey man God that's going to get you for not obeying rules and laws written by men in books was invented in the mind of man. Be conscious and go and create your experiences, your reality, and your destiny. God does not judge you, nor do the angels, nor do your spirit guides.
6. Now, let yourself out of prison, out of bondage, off of punishment. You are free again. Release your punishment and transmute it into freedom using your mind (visualization).
7. From NOW on, only engage in those acts that make you feel good, whole, and that you are proud of and can live with and which cause you to have a good night's sleep.
Thank you for reading!
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NOTE: Please excuse some of the language and content in this article as my purpose was and is to reach out to today's American youth, especially the hip hop youth (and particularly the thug, gangster rapper, and video vixen element), to begin to get them exposed to health consciousness and spiritual/cosmic consciousness. They have been neglected for a long time and despite all the conscious and positive rappers out there, i.e. KRS-One, Paris, Kam, Public Enemy, Dead Prez, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Inmortal Technique, Common, et al., they have not been truly fed, spiritually. Political and social consciousness cannot feed the soul and is still mostly lower chakra music and creativity.
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