How Do I Find My Perfect Partner, Soul Mate, or Ideal Husband/Wife?
You don't find your soul mate (or ideal husband/wife or perfect partner)! You allow them to come into your life. Everything always happens in the proper time-space sequence. There is no effort or struggle because everything is divinely timed. The key is to remember to stay open and go with the flow. Simply remember that what you desire in a mate is out there. Remember this thought and stay positive about it.
How Do I Prepare For My Soul Mate?
 You prepare for your soul mate by working on yourself. Simply be the best man or woman that you can be (in addition to being the best person that you can be). See, you are attracting your soul mate via magnetism. Like attracts like! Become, quality-wise, what you seek to attract in a soul mate and you will attract it - GUARANTEED!
So simply put, just concentrate on yourself. Work on yourself! If you want a health conscious soul mate, become health conscious yourself! If you want a soul mate that has a positive mental attitude, develop a positive mental attitude yourself. If you want a spiritually inclined soul mate, become spiritually inclined yourself. Become what you seek to attract! This is how you prepare for your soul mate.
What Should I be Looking For or Desiring In A Soul Mate?
You should be looking for certain qualities that you desire in a soul mate. It is the person's qualities that will keep you attracted after the initial physical attraction that captivates you. It is important to specify all that you desire in a mate. Don't be general or generalize! The Universe gives you want you specifically asks for or what you don't specifically ask for. For example, if you simply just want a good man or woman, that's exactly what you'll get; however, this good man or woman may have certain or many defects and flaws that may prove fatal to the relationship in the end. He or she may be a good person, but have many un-worked out issues from their past; they may come with numerous things that irk or annoy you, etc. This is why you must specify because a person simply being just "good" won't be enough to keep the relationship going. Therefore, always specify the attributes or qualities you desire in a soul mate.
If you're desiring a woman (wife), you might desire qualities such as:
Physically beautiful
Sex appeal
Sensual nature
Culinary arts skill (great cook)
Maternally inclined (wants children)
Financially secure
Naturally femininely passive (yin-oriented)
Spiritually inclined
Religiously inclined
Health conscious
Politically astute
Intelligent (book smarts)
Witty
Supportive
Compassionate
Loving
Caring
Principled (morals, ethics, integrity, etc.)
Understanding
Patience (patient)
Willing to learn new things
Honest/honesty
Emotional stability
If you're desiring a man (husband), you might desire qualities such as:
Handsome
Intelligent (book smarts)
Wisdom
Knowledgeable
Health conscious
Financially secure
Economically viable
Paternally inclined (desires children and to be a father to them)
Understanding
Loving
Supportive
Patient
Caring
Mental stability
Honest
Principled (morals, ethics, integrity, etc.)
These are just a few examples that you may be desiring in a soul mate. However, it is up to you as an individual to make up your own list of desired qualities and attributes.
If you ask a general question to the Universe, you'll get a general answer from the Universe. If you ask a specific question from the Universe, you'll get a specific answer. The Universe deals with specificity; so SPECIFY what you desire.
How Will I Know When I Have Met My Soul Mate?
You will simply "Just know it." You will feel it. How you feel is your sensor. You will trust your feeling (instinct) and intuition (inner knowing). You will both connect; feel an instant attraction. You may feel that you've met before (past life connection). These feelings will become clearer and stronger over the months and things will go and stay smooth. Lust won't be involved.
 It is really easy to know when you've met your soul mate when you are clear: your mind is clear, your blood is pure (body has been detoxified); you're balanced, in tune with yourself, and conscious or aware (on all levels, especially spiritually).
Many people feel many of the above things with numerous individuals only to discover within a few months or years that the person is not for them (as a soul mate). It starts off good, but then dies. This is very common, however, this is really because of the individuals - not being aware (conscious), in tune with themselves, clear-minded, etc.
All relationships start with a fire, a little flame, and it's up to the individuals of the relationship to decide to heighten the flame or fire or put the flame or fire out.
Most people, due to being unconscious (unaware), not in tune with their higher self, etc., voluntarily put the flame or fire out. They fail to realize that all that they don't like within their partner is merely a reflection of things that they don't like within themselves or possess within self and need to address, but can't see it or fail to acknowledge it; so they keep attracting mates/partners with the same qualities that keep giving them the same problems (drama) over and over again and then begin to expect that something is wrong with all women or all men.
You attract based upon the frequency you emit, so it is very important to be conscious of the frequency you currently operate on or exist on and also send out. When you change your own frequency, you change the type of people you attract into your life. This is how I met Meisha, my first qualitative girlfriend, back in 1992. I simply made changes to myself - my thinking, mannerisms, dress code, etc. and thus attracted a different caliber of woman into my life. Before Meisha, you could say that most of my girlfriends were sort of hood-rat (Easty) type of females because this was the frequency I operated on myself. I later refined my tastes and attracted a woman into my life that reflected my newfound refinement.
So what did I do to attract this young lady? Did I attempt to change another person and get them to be the way I wanted them to be or would have liked them to be? No! I simply made changes on myself and within myself that made matters very easy for me, for it's far easier to change self than it is to change another person. We actually violate the law of free will when we attempt to change another person. We must remember that, "Our liberty ends where the next person's liberty begins."
Regardless of zodiac signs, odds, challenges, setbacks, difficulties, trials, and tribulations, all couples can make it if they decide to. Whether a relationship succeeds or fail boils down to a choice made by the partners.
Many people have unknowingly become fire extinguishers or fire fighters rather than arsonists pertaining to love and relationships. They desire love and relationship but every time an opportunity manifests, they destroy it (usually due to subtle and subconscious programming and fear of a successful relationship). They put the fire out and then wonder how come they don't have or can't enjoy love and relationships. These individuals are unconscious and are harming themselves via their unconsciousness and ignorance. Deep in their subconscious, they have been programmed to extinguish fires rather than to feed them or magnify them. Unfortunately for these people, they are getting what they ask for.
What's the Most Important Thing That I Can Do Right Now To Be Open For My Soul Mate and Also to Ensure a Happy and Healthy Union When My Soul Mate Arrives?
Great question! When I perform angel card readings for people, it never seems to fail that when people ask questions about love and/or relationships, life purpose always comes up. Therefore, I would say to get off into your life's purpose. Discover your true life's purpose, what you came to the planet to do in this particular and present lifetime. We tend to be very open and receptive to things when we are in the flow of our lives or simply going with the flow.
Being on the grind to "make a living" is usually time and energy draining whereas "living one's making" is not. Many relationships end unnecessarily because folks get so sidetracked with "making a living" for purposes of covering the daily and basic necessities of life and its really not that serious as all of our needs are provided for by the Universe if we would just believe and practice utilizing the Universe.
Life is twofold, material and spiritual, but here within the Matrix or Net (world), there is an imbalance. You are purposely blinded to the spiritual truths and values of life of which if you were conscious of this, you'd seek the spiritual truths and values of life (predicated upon higher or cosmic law) and realize that the Universe is your All-Provider and all that you need is easily provided for without selling out your soul for some energy-draining corporate job that you really dislike working at but do so because you operate on "survival" mode as a slave believing that YOU have to do things (i.e. making ends meet).
So I say discover your life's purpose and get off into it fast and in a hurry. Great blessings await you if you follow your heart!
Should I Consider Astrology In Desiring My Soul Mate?
The choice is totally up to you. Remember, everybody (especially religious folks, i.e. Christians, Jews, Muslims) may not embrace astrology due to their beliefs (which are usually linear) on the art and science. Myself personally, I would (and did). Many zodiac signs are naturally inclined towards certain attributes and qualities that will help to make the relationship go smoother than it normally would. Balance is the key and astrology helps us to find balance in our selves, mates, and relationships.
 For example, if you greatly desire a person (soul mate) that loves to serve and help out, who loves to help people, Virgo is your best bet.
If you greatly desire someone who loves knowledge, is somewhat fringe, loves social change, and somewhat rebellious and iconoclastic, then Aquarius is your best bet.
If you greatly desire loyalty, patience, someone with perseverance, and commitment, then Taurus is your choice.
If you greatly desire someone with strong will, intelligence, and personal drive, then Aries is your choice or best bet.
It's great to learn about the individual attributes or qualities of each sign in the zodiac as well as the collective triplicities and quadruplicities.
Triplicity denotes the category a sign belongs to that corresponds with the elements Earth, Water, Air, and Fire.
Earth signs are "practical" and include Taurus (April 20 - May 20), Virgo (August 24 - September 23), and Capricorn (December 23 - January 19). The people born under these signs are pretty much the same, i.e. grounded, practical, earthy, and material.
Water signs are "emotional" and include Cancer, (June 23 - July 23), Scorpio (October 24 - November 22), and Pisces (February 20 - March 20). The people born under these signs are pretty much the same, i.e. emotional, intuitive, and deep feeling.
Air signs are "mental" and include Gemini (May 22 - June 22), Libra (September 24 - October 23), and Aquarius (January 20 - February 19). The people born under these signs are pretty much the same, i.e. mental, communicative (talkative), and very friendly.
Fire signs are "inspirational" and include Aries (March 21 - April 20), Leo (July 24 - August 23), and Sagittarius (November 23 - December 22). The people born under these signs are pretty much the same, i.e. fiery, inspirational, fun-loving, and somewhat self-centered (but not in a bad way).
After I divorced my first wife, a Pisces, I consciously began to study the attributes of all zodiac signs (of the Western zodiac) and realized that my best choice or catch in a wife was a woman born under the constellation 'Virgo.' I was able to substantiate this choice by thinking on and realizing that every single female that I ever met and who was a Virgo, we INSTANTLY clicked and hit it off from the start; had an attraction from the start (be it platonic or intimate); or just got along without effort. I simply got along and liked every woman (and male) that was a Virgo and so I was able to deduce (from personal studies, observation, and experience) that Virgo was the best sign for me as a Taurus in a relationship (marriage).
From Andrea (my wife) to Nadia (niece), Ruthie Grant (friend), her daughter, Crystal Grant (friend); Aundrea Rogers (Meisha's mother), Aida Rodriguez (friend), Michelle Woods (friend), Rae Stevens (friend), Akua Aset (Nick Roques), et al. [females], to Amen Aua (Eric Fletcher), Nettera, Brother Heru, et al. [males], there was an immediate fondness.
When I was ready to come out of my four year shell (time I took for myself after the divorce) and receive my wife, when I wrote my list of desired things in a soul mate, I made sure to specify to the Universe that I desired a woman born under Virgo. And to be honest, I had a second choice as well, which was Libra as I also got along great with Libra and one of my best relationships was with a Libra (Meisha A. Sherman).
Libras are swell people to me and some of the best people and dear friends in my life are Libra including my father, Earnest Cooper, Sr. (R.I.P.), little brother and sister (fraternal twins) Michael and Michelle Cooper; Danyelle Harris (spiritual sister), Paris Chatman (dear friend), Belinda Chambers (dear friend); and Keith Cooper (cousin). My newest son, Ajani Ma'at-Ra is also a Libra.
Libra and Taurus are both signs ruled by Venus, planet of love and beauty, so this was a powerful union (with Meisha) in every way, one that greatly positively impacted me.
Funny thing is, because I expressed to the Universe that I primarily desired a Virgo, and a Libra secondarily, guess what? I got both! Yes, I got both signs because my wife is a Virgo-Libra cusp, born on September 23rd! I thought this was powerful and fascinating. Yes, the Universe does listen and respond.
Folks, there is nothing wicked or evil in the Universe, including things of a paranormal nature, i.e. astrology, crystals, yoga, meditation, etc. Many of our Western religious brethren (Christian, Jew, Muslim), most of whom are linear-minded due to their limitedness in knowledge, believe that a lot of Eastern practices and so-called New Age arts and sciences are in fact wicked and evil, but it is because they are ignorant to such arts and sciences and really have not studied these art and sciences on their own and for themselves and if so, not with an OPEN mind.
They are primarily BELIEVERS and not KNOWERS, usually going by some holy book that they themselves didn't write and/or some religious leader who does most of the thinking for the flock, so they make for some of the biggest so-called 'victims' (unconscious participants) and sheep on the planet because they do not understand and live in accordance with cosmic law. All is energy. So whether good or bad, it all comes from the same source. Energy is energy and there is polarity, therefore, good and bad are both the same things only differing at degrees.
How Important is the Outer Shell or Physical Makeup of the Person (Soul Mate)?
It is important, but not that important when the qualities you desire are manifested. But a physically attractive person to go along with your desired inner qualities makes a big difference and greatly helps out. Usually, inner handsomeness and inner beauty manifest externally. But we should never forget that, like the Temptations sang in a song: "Beauty is only skin deep." There are a lot of pretty women and handsome men in the Matrix who will do you in and turn your life upside down if you let them.
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