Contrary to what you may believe based upon what you have been taught in the Matrix, there is no such thing as failure or being a failure. To fail only means to achieve a result you did not desire; but nevertheless, so-called failure gives us beneficial information; information we can use to arrive at the result or goal we desire.
 All so-called failure or even defeat is success inverted. Always remember this! So-called failure (and defeat) is the polarity of success. So-called failure (and defeat) makes us appreciate success and triumph when we attain them or experience them; gives us a balanced perspective of things.
When you achieve a so-called failure, you have obtained information that simply states you need to do more work, dig deeper, work harder and/or smarter, apply more effort, and have more faith!
So-called failure can lead to success for those who have strong will, courage, mental tenacity, faith, patience, and who can persevere; and more importantly, who BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES!
When you "fail" an exam, it only means you need to study more diligently, apply yourself more, that's all!
When you "fail" in a relationship or marriage, it only means you are missing some parts to the puzzle or big picture; but never-the-less, you gained vital information about yourself as you relate to another person in a committed relationship that you can improve upon and apply in your next relationship. Every relationship is a steppingstone, a valuable learning experience and lesson. Many relationships end so new ones can begin.
Even if you find out you were deficient in some area of your life via the relationship, this still provides you with much needed information that allows you to correct the deficiency and improve yourself. Remember, we all have room for improvement. All of us! Also, we can never improve another person, only ourselves. Plus, it's much easier to make changes on self than to unwisely try to change someone else or get them to change, especially for our purposes and motives which does a great disservice to the other person and our selves.
When you don't succeed at first, TRY AGAIN! Nothing beats a so-called failure but a try, effort, or attempt. Always put forth an effort and do the best you can do. Always! Never quit or give up! Never! Remember, any time you think about quitting or giving up on a thing, especially if you are passionate about it and it's your heart's desire, you are always 3 feet from the gold, which means you are closer to success and realizing your dream(s) than you think or know. Just don't give up! Stay focused! Keep your eyes on the prize.
Look for the good in every situation and your life will be a smooth ride. You'll go through adversity because that's a part of life (for our soul's purpose), but you'll go through the adversity faster and come out with greater rewards in the end. The greater the difficulty or adversity, the greater the triumph! Guaranteed!
Always stay positive in life, even if you so-call "fail" at something. A positive mental attitude is the key to success, whatever you define success to be for yourself!
Again, there is no such thing as failure!
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