You can't ask for a new car to park in your garage if you have a broken down car sitting in the garage. The energy for a new car to take the place of the old car is blocked.  You have to first remove to the old car so as to make space or room for the new car.
When you make space for something, you create an energy vortex that helps to bring in the new thing you desire. Clearing space for something new helps create the attracting energy to pull in the newly desired thing. Well, the same thing applies to relationships or a mate.
Oftentimes too many people talk of desiring their ultimate soul mate while in a relationship with a person that they know is not their soul mate.
Mr. Right will never come as long as you're involved with Mr. Wrong; nor will Mrs. Right come as long as you are involved with Mrs. Wrong. How can Mr. Right come when Mr. Wrong is in his space in your life? How do you expect for Mrs. Right to come if Mrs. Wrong is in her space?
For Mr. or Mrs. Right to come or appear, you have to first get rid of (LET GO) of Mr. or Mrs. Wrong, whom you're with perhaps due to emotional and/or financial dependence and/or obligation.
How can you expect a good man to come into your life when you're with a bad, insalubrious, or incompatible man?
How can you expect a good woman to appear or come into your life while you're with a bad, insalubrious, or incompatible woman?
Two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time on the 3D level. Space clearing is very important in attracting and/or replacing. To attract a new thing, you must create the space for it - the physical arrival of it, that is.
You must give Mr. or Mrs. Wrong his or her walking papers. You have to 86 (terminate) the relationship with the insalubrious or incompatible person. You have to create the space to draw in the person of your dreams as well as create the necessary space and time for personal healing. Yes, being with Mr. or Mrs. Wrong is injurious and therefore healing is necessary and required.
Usually, a lot of damage is done when you're involved with Mr. or Mrs. Wrong! The relationship is not healthy (and both parties really know it) but they cling together for subtle needs and obligations, usually or mostly emotional.
Many times, people just can't bear being by themselves or alone. They are afraid of being by themselves. They don't feel whole or complete by themselves. Being with someone makes the person feel whole and complete and this is really not a good thing because if you don't feel whole or complete by yourself, you'll never truly be whole or complete.
Please reflect on the words of the mystic Osho below:
"Always remember the difference between aloneness and loneliness. Loneliness is like a wound. Loneliness means you are missing another person. Loneliness means you are thinking of another person constantly. The other is in your fantasy, in your mind, in your dreams. The other is not real, it is imaginary, but it is there and because it is not real you feel lonely."
When you start feeling your aloneness, the other drops from your mind completely. It doesn't shadow your dreams any more, it doesn't touch your purity any more. You are happy with yourself, you are ecstatic with yourself, you are enjoying yourself. Now for the first time you are in tune with your being and with your non-being. You are whole. Now you can be in love. Now love can flow. Bit now love will be a sharing, not an escape. Now you can go and share your wholeness. Now you can allow anybody who is open to join your openness, now you can become partners in the eternal journey. This love will not be possessive, because you are ready to be alone anytime. In fact you are happy being alone and you are happy being together - you don't have to choose between the two. Both are good. Whatever the case, you feel happy. Your happiness cannot be destroyed now; another can enjoy it and share it but cannot destroy it."
 Another person cannot make you whole or complete. Only YOU can! The reality is - you're already whole and complete if you would just realize this fact.
Tell Mr. or Mrs. Wrong to HIT THE ROAD, JACK, and don't you come back no more no more no more no more! Hit the road, Jack, and don't you come back no more!
You can never have a happy ending at the end of an unhappy journey; it just doesn't work out that way. The way you're feeling, along the way, is the way you're continuing to pre-pave your journey, and it's the way it's going to continue to turn out until you do something about the way you are feeling. - Esther Hicks
Affirmation: I am the right person for the right man or woman that I share my life and love with unconditionally.
Excerpted from "The Love Manual" (available in our On-Line Store)
Thank you for reading!
This article is compliments of Dherbs.com.
|
