 Cunnilingus is the licking of the cunt, which is actually a pejorative word for vagina. However, I find it interesting that the word 'cunt' is the basis and origin for the word 'cun' or 'cunn' from whence we get the word 'cunning' meaning "having or showing skill in achieving one's end by using deceit or evasion."
Hmmm! Cunning and cunt, or deceit and vagina. What's the connection or the subtle message? The female vagina is or has been used to deceive (males)? I can't see the vagina or cunt itself having the ability to deceive, so I would have to deduce that the patriarchal and misogynistic grammarians who give us our words and meanings of words in the English language were implying that females (who possess vaginas) skillfully used such orifice to deceive men.
Okay, moving on with the intent of the article. Basically, I'm not here to say cunnilingus is good or bad, or right or wrong. I am only concerned with health and hygiene, especially hygiene when it comes to this act.
Many women enjoy this act performed on them. It's a great stress reliever for many of them. For others, it leads to a great orgasm. And then for a lot others who may not enjoy it for its stress relieving powers or who may not achieve orgasm from the act, they simply just enjoy the intense pleasure from this act. And I don't doubt that for some women it's a power trip thing, just like with the males who use fellatio as a power trip thing.
For hygiene purposes, the best time for a man to perform cunnilingus on a woman is after she bathes or showers. Women's vagina develops what I call a 'daily activity' smell. Basically, the vagina, just like the penis and testicles, sweat (from daily movement due to daily activity) and this sweat produces an off odor which is not necessarily foul in most cases, just not so pleasant. After all, when a man is down there licking that kitty cat, he's not holding his breath (he may start off holding his breath if the coochie is foul or off smelling, but he eventually gives in). His nose is wide open, so he's smelling everything down there.
The female vagina, when healthy, has a naturally nice and sweet smell. It's a very clean organ when a female is health conscious. But again, due to daily movements which causes the vagina to sweat in addition to the fact that the vagina is smothered by the likes of panties and tight pants, it's very easy for the naturally sweet smell of the vagina to turn to an off or not so pleasant smell. And usually, smell determines taste. And of course, you should know that diet affects the health of the vagina and also influences the smell of the vagina. What a woman eats and drink will affect the color and smell of what comes out of her vagina. This is also true pertaining to her sex fluids which a man is bound to taste while performing cunnilingus.
Based on the above, I recommend that women shower or bathe before allowing a man to perform cunnilingus on them. Of course some people just don't care about hygiene and just want to get their freak groove on instantly or immediately (perhaps due to lust) and this understandable. But hygiene should not be ignored. A lot is going on with the vagina today.
Men must remember that the vagina is used for urination and a lot of times a woman will go urinate before she allows a man to lick her fancy. No matter how good a woman wipes herself with toilet paper after urinating, there will still be urine residues in the vagina. If the woman urinates before cunnilingus is performed, she should take a wet towel and clean the vagina very good (as best she can) for soon her man's tongue will be in her kitty cat.
The vagina is going to be cleanest after a woman bathes or showers. So the best time to perform cunnilingus is right after she gets out of the tub or shower. Now let me say this: for certain women, showering or bathing is not going to guarantee that their vaginas smell pleasant. It's just not, because certain women have a thing going on down there where the stench or foul odor is uncontrollable and simply fumigates from the vagina. Conditions such as this are almost always attributed to the woman being toxic and her colon being blocked and laced with feces. The rectum is in close proximity to the vagina. Also, the vagina serves as a woman's sixth channel of elimination and if what's in a woman's inside is foul, what comes out of the vagina will smell foul.
Some women have an embarrassing foul odor that permeates their clothing, regardless of what they are wearing. I deal with this situation in women periodically. It greatly affects their self-esteem and self-image too!
There are certain things men need to be aware of when performing cunnilingus, especially when not in a monogamous relationship.
Number one, women urinate from that orifice and most women, due to being un-health conscious, have acidic urine. If she doesn't wipe herself well, you'll be licking this acidic urine - residues of it, in her vagina.
Secondly, she may have a history of discharging. You just never know. Vaginal discharge is very common nowadays due to what women are eating (just like us men, but the only exception being is that our penis doesn't eliminate our waste like the female vagina does). This is why I prefer monogamous relationships to casual ones; you learn about your mate and the health of your mate and know what's going on with them at the most intimate and private levels and therefore you can use discernment before certain things are engaged in or performed.
But in a casual relationship (or encounter), how could you possibly know what's going on with the health of a person (if the person doesn't tell you, and in most cases when dealing with an unconscious person and perhaps motivated by base lust, you won't)? I deal with so many STD cases and most of them resulted from someone (usually females) having sex with a partner who didn't tell her or him that they were infected with a STD. The person was simply selfish, inconsiderate, and only had one goal or objective in mind and that was to have sex. I'm telling you, you really can't beat the dividends of a monogamous relationship. These kinds of relationship offer more security, confidence, trust, fidelity, healthy emotional bonding, and respect than compared to the casual relationship where individuals just may be "bed mates", "fuck buddies", or "sex partners." However, to each his own and I am not condemning anyone for their actions predicated upon their choices. I respect free will but I also mutually respect the Law of Cause and Effect (Correspondence).
Because the vagina is dark, wet, warm, and moist, it can become the perfect breeding ground and citadel for parasitic and unhealthy bacterial infection. This is true! Parasites can and do dwell in many female's vagina. For example, consider 'trichmoniasis.'
Trichomoniasis. A vaginal infection caused by the protozoan Trichomonas vaginalis, characterized by itching, burning, and frothy, pale yellow to green, malodorous vaginal discharge. - Mosby's Medical Dictionary, 3rd edition
What is 'protozoan' or what does it mean? Answer: microscopic organism. An organism is a living thing.
Also consider the naturally acidic pH level of the vagina. When the diet is poor, the pH level decreases and the natural acidic level of the vagina (which is a healthy state, by the way) is lowered and when this happens, the state of the vagina becomes unhealthy because the acidic levels have become too low.
Men must also remember that women bleed from this orifice monthly unless they're in menopause.
 And today, many women have genital herpes and human papilloma virus (HPV). They also have other STDs or had them. But of all the STDs on the books today, let me tell you as a man who deals with health situations of people almost everyday (except for weekends), none are as rampant and evidently undiscriminating as genital herpes (HSVII). This disease is the #1 sexually transmitted disease that is really wrecking havoc on the lives and sex lives of people, especially females.
Genital herpes is no joke and it is a life crusher (until and unless the person becomes conscious and make all necessary changes in all necessary areas of one's life and unfortunately, it appears that Dherbs.com is the only game in town that is helping people to see the positive that comes out of this disease in addition to the fact we do embrace the fact that the disease is 100% healable or reversible, predicated upon the scriptural verse that "With God all things are possible", Matthew 19:26).
Many times these STD-based infections occur within the vagina where you cannot see the outbreak (wart, lesion, bump, rash, etc.). Some females lack principles and conscience and will not even tell a man what's going on down there - the state or status of their vagina, and still let a man 'lick em' and stick em'. All they want is the pleasure from their kitty cat being licked and/or penetrated.
So much may enter the vagina nowadays - male and female condoms, vibrators, plastic dildos, feminine deodorant spray or powder, vaginal lubricants, medicated vaginal creams, chemical douche solutions, etc. All types of unnatural and man-made things enter the female vagina nowadays.
A conscious man will also think about the consciousness of the vagina and the corresponding energy emitted from the vagina. Every penis that penetrates and enters a woman's vaginal portal for the first time picks up that recorded and stored information (from her past and her past sex partners (and lovers, if any, as all sex partners are not lovers)) and the penis penetrating for the first time also transmits its information (from the man's past and past sex partners and lovers) that will be recorded and stored in the hardware of the Root chakra as well as the Sacral chakra.
Now, when the vagina is healthy and smells sweet and fresh, the benefits are mutual. The female receives blissful pleasure and the male receives a beneficial nectar that stimulates his 3rd eye (pineal gland) enhancing his intuition, psychic abilities, and spiritual faculties. His pituitary and pineal glands are stimulated, nourished, and rejuvenated. His higher chakras become wide open in healthy and safe fashion. If his higher chakras are blocked, they become balanced or aligned from the act and mystical secretions (sex juices).
Men benefit from the mystical properties of female secretions while performing cunnilingus more so than women do while performing fellatio simply because the mystical butter normally secreted from the foreskin of the penis is lost due to male circumcision (male genital mutilation). However, women do still benefit from the sex juices of a man, especially pertaining to energy. The male sex juices help a woman to balance her Yang. If the man is spiritually conscious, his sex juices can help the woman to also open up more and become clearer in her intuition and psychic abilities as well as the rest of her higher faculties. Her higher chakras too will become open and/or balanced and aligned if they are not. There's just so much to sex that the average person and couple just don't have a clue about.
Women may be consuming a man's pre-cum and/or outright cum (sperm) while in the act of fellatio, which however do not effect her overall intuition, psychic abilities, and spiritual faculties to the slightest degree of the mystical butter secreted from the uncircumcised penis.
Swallowing a man's cum may balance her Yin and Yang energy, but it is not stimulating, nourishing, and rejuvenating her pituitary and pineal glands.
Plus, semen is alkaline and can throw off the pH balance of her stomach causing serious health problems, if she swallows semen excessively.
Excessive consumption of semen can also disrupt the Yin/Yang energy circuits as well. So even pertaining to sex, there's a science to it. Knowledge and knowledge applied is power!
It's not the semen, but what is emitted from the semen that can help (or harm) a woman on higher levels of her existence. A man is not just giving semen, but energy.
A woman will benefit or be harmed from the energy she receives from a man. It's all about energy!
A man's sperm ingested will affect a woman's individual emotions more than anything else and the semen will only affect her individual intuition, psychic abilities, and spirituality in a very limited and linear sense, meaning only based upon her relationship with that particular man, but not in a general sense with all males she may come into contact with, sexually or non-sexually. The man has to be spiritually conscious in order to positively and salubriously impact a woman on higher levels pertaining to her overall intuition, psychic abilities, spirituality, and other 3rd eye faculties.
Cunnilingus is a great precursor to sexual intercourse. It gets the vagina nice and wet for easy and smooth penetration. Cunnilingus can actually help a man out if he suffers from poor hang-time, lack of stamina and endurance, and/or premature ejaculation, as many men do suffer from these things.
Cunnilingus helps a man out simply because cunnilingus helps many women to get off (get her 'nut' or orgasm) and if a woman gets her 'nut' she won't trip on being penetrated for 2-5 minutes and then ejaculated in. Her bliss will have come from cunnilingus-induced orgasm. However, let me say that the foregoing is simply the exception to the rule and not the rule, for a man should know how to satisfy a woman with his lingham (magic wand) as well as his mouth, tongue, and hands.
So like is said: "If you don't have it between the hips, you better have it in the lips." And this is some real talk for you on the up and up because sex is a big deal in our society. Relationships are made and broken up over sex everyday.
A lot of women are unhappy in their relationships simply because of poor sex with their mate. The man can have money, good looks, material positions, status, etc., but if he's coming up short in the bedroom in the sex department, he has a problem and would be wise to seek a solution immediately, because some women will cheat on that man all for the sake of being sexually satisfied.
Poor sexual performance can lead to extramarital affairs (adultery), breakups and separations, divorce, ruined relationships (if the couple stays together after a mate has cheated), and a host of other things including poor health if a mate cheats and contracts a STD, which happens a lot by the way.
We need to become balanced in our perceptions of sex. We also need to raise our vibrations as it pertains to sex as well. Too many children are produced from low vibrational or low frequency sex which really impair them in their life on Earth.
True, many Light-workers come into existence by means of low vibrational or low frequency sex but the advanced souls out there always come in via high vibrational or high frequency sex.
The souls that want to jump immediately into their light work come through via conscious parents who engage in high vibrational or high frequency sex. These children have very few obstacles to deal with on their path whereas the Light-workers who come through via unconscious parents and low frequency sex are delayed in their light-work due to numerous obstacles (that they chose for soul development purposes on the Other Side but forget once they take on a dense body), obstacles in the form of abandonment (as a parent may leave the child at an early age), a sense of rejection (one or both parents may reject the child), abuse (violent and/or sexual), a sense of not being loved and/or wanted, etc.
Cunnilingus may be a precursor to more than you know. Cunnilingus may lead to sexual genital penetration that may lead to conception that may lead to birth that may lead to a soul doing good or bad on the planet. This is something to think about before engaging in any sexual act. All acts have consequences just as all thoughts have consequences, if not on this realm, you can best believe on other realms like the astral realm.
In closing, as a woman, if you like cunnilingus - cool! If not, still cool! It all boils down to personal choice. An act is not objectively bad, dirty, or immoral simply because you don't like the act or because your beliefs surrounding it are not positive.
Many women have knocked the act until it was performed on them and they went crazy and perhaps became 'turned out' by the act.
For some women, cunnilingus was a stipulation for vaginal penetration. Back in the early 1990s a young lady named Marilyn (12 years older than me) who I was dating told me "A man cannot get into (penetrate) 'this' (vagina) unless he eats me out!" Back in the early 1990s I still operated from a religious software and so her words greatly turned me off and repulsed me so I eventually broke it off with her." My mouth and tongue were off limits as a religious zealot. Without ever trying the act I condemned it. Typical of a religious zealot!
Many people have come to learn that reciprocity exists in sex, pertaining to oral sex, because if the person wanted to receive oral sex, they also had to give it. Many people have come to performing oral sex simply as a condition for receiving it.
Lastly, to all the people with no standards when it comes to sex, it is not wise to perform oral sex on someone you just met. If the relationship is not a monogamous one, chances are the female was probably penetrated and juiced up days before, and your mouth and tongue is down there in the aftermath of a recent sexual rendezvous.
Or, the female may have just gotten off of her period or monthly cycle. I have heard accounts of certain males who performed oral sex on menstruating women. One guy I heard about performed cunnilingus on a menstruating female while she still had a tampon inserted. These were very unconscious individuals, not knowing that the menstrual cycle is a period of waste elimination via the blood via the vagina. During this time of the month, cunnilingus should be off limits; but I do understand that for many people lust is simply the master due to being stronger than reason or sense.
Because lesbianism as well as sexual curiosity has increased in our society, the act of cunnilingus is greatly performed between females today. A few women have told me that they weren't lesbian, but submitted to oral sex by another female because simply put, a woman knows what to do in cunnilingus because she knows what she wants in cunnilingus.
Whatever the relationship situation, homosexual or heterosexual, monogamy, in my opinion, is best as far as safety, hygiene, and health are concerned.
Oral sex can be a beautiful thing if done with the right person, at the right time, and under the right circumstances.
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